Zan,
I agree with Deniz. Why don't you enjoy your holiday with your family and give us a full report when you get back to the UK where you will have time to write and answer peoples question, rather than all this "hit & miss" reporting by trying to juggle both.
You say that the TC's are becoming more political, so talk to them politics. It is important for you and for us to understand what the general mood of the TC's and the settlers are in the north, so talk to them about politics just by asking them what their feelings and ideas are of the present and future of the north or Cyprus in general when peace is reached. Once you get their answers, then ask them if they have bought any stolen GC properties or are occupying any GC properties right now and whether they have any property in the south. This will give you a clearer understanding how their political views were based on. Also try and imagine what the north would look like if there were many more GC's were living there once peace is reached, rather than the hand full you have seen as "guests of the host country" as you put it I believe. Talk to these people also and see what they have to say rather than ignoring them. They are after all not foreigners to Cyprus, even if you see them as such.
I have a feeling that you will be going to the south for a visit very soon. After being in the north for few days, you sound like you have seen and done everything and are now prepared to get up at 7 am to go watch how Hellim is made. This may explain why you have not seen too many tourist around as you told us with your opening post. You managed to get to the north without much hassle, and if tourist in general wanted to go to the north, they too can get there , and yet, they are not, and please, do not tell us it is because there are no direct flights from the EU countries. So Zan, tell us why the tourist in general are staying away from the north.?
Stop your foolishness of not going to the south. If any consolation, even VP goes to the south. I can assure you, if you are polite to the GC's, they will be polite to you back. Rent a car for few days in the south and drive around to see rest of your country, and I can assure you, that all your legal rights will be observed and provided to you, or else, I may have to start saying that you are only giving us a "one sided story".!
Safe trip on your remainder of yours and family's holidays Zan.!