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[Sega]

To Cheshire Cat,

Sorry your forum threat was locked, so I decided to create my own answering all your questions on bullying.

I was in fact bullied through childhood up until I became somebody. Now I shun bullying.

When your first bullied you are not sure how to deal with it. In the most part you accept it. Bullying makes you feel unwanted and lonely, it's a horrible thing to feel. Anyhow, normally some time after the aftermath of bullying, when you leave school, you're still a bit edgy. You might even burst out crying believing your still bullied, but then soon after you realise the ordeal is over.

If you referring to Cyber Bullying, the best way is to ignore it. Cyber bullying otherwise known as electronic bullying is the easiest form of bullying to deal with. How do you stop people sending you bad SMS messages, simply change your number, same goes for email, and same goes for forum name. It's so easy to stop, ignoring them always does it though, they cannot have a one way argument.

I was bullied, but now I am stronger and tougher. I once saw one of my bullies years ago, and he got scared. Bullies are all cowards they require a group to feel powerful, well I have one over on them, I feel powerful on my own, so beat that. If only they knew how much those bullies helped me.

Oh ye, in terms of pay back, I feel you should never give payback, God always pays them back for you. I once had a bad experience with somebody who seriously deserved payback, I chose to ignore him and let him continue making the same mistakes over and over again, until one day he steps on somebody who will do all the payback for me. If you think about it, giving payback helps them, it allows them to realise their mistakes, so why on earth would I want to do that?

I hope this helps you understand.


Kind Regards,
Sega

[Oracle]

Sega .... unfortunately CC's reasons for opening that thread were not genuine ...

She had a lot of vindictive gripes, and was shown to be involved in Cyberbullying herself.

She played on people's natural affections.

She refused point blank to apologise for calling another forumer's wife some really vile names ...

She has painted a holier than thow picture .... and she has fooled a lot of people.

Needless to say she skunked off without apology ...

[Sega]

I am sorry to hear this, maybe this is the reason the thread was closed.

[Oracle]

I am sorry to hear this, maybe this is the reason the thread was closed.

Life is complicated ... Sega you opened up in a way that I think will help a lot of people.

I used to help at my son's school on day trips, and because the kids were so young .. they didn't realise they are being watched and some of the things one observed were really sad.

In the end my conclusion was that the ones that behaved like real bullies where the ones that I know had parents that put their work and money first. Would use countless baby sitters so that they could still go out in the evenings ... and would be the first to drop their kids off at a party, rush off and the last to pick them up again ...

These "little bullies" were neglected children ...

Of course some are psychopaths .. but that's another matter ...

Anyway as for CC ... she has spent months avoiding apologising to DT. and his wife ... and caused no end of mayhem and thread locks ... so there is definitely something amiss and not quite right with her

[purdey]

I think we have laboured on CC enough for one day...

[Sega]

I am sorry to hear this, maybe this is the reason the thread was closed.

Life is complicated ... Sega you opened up in a way that I think will help a lot of people.

I used to help at my son's school on day trips, and because the kids were so young .. they didn't realise they are being watched and some of the things one observed were really sad.

In the end my conclusion was that the ones that behaved like real bullies where the ones that I know had parents that put their work and money first. Would use countless baby sitters so that they could still go out in the evenings ... and would be the first to drop their kids off at a party, rush off and the last to pick them up again ...

These "little bullies" were neglected children ...

Of course some are psychopaths .. but that's another matter ...

Anyway as for CC ... she has spent months avoiding apologising to DT. and his wife ... and caused no end of mayhem and thread locks ... so there is definitely something amiss and not quite right with her

Cyber bullying is a crime, at should not be done under any circumstances, what are the admin of this forum doing to counter act this?

[Oracle]

I am sorry to hear this, maybe this is the reason the thread was closed.

Life is complicated ... Sega you opened up in a way that I think will help a lot of people.

I used to help at my son's school on day trips, and because the kids were so young .. they didn't realise they are being watched and some of the things one observed were really sad.

In the end my conclusion was that the ones that behaved like real bullies where the ones that I know had parents that put their work and money first. Would use countless baby sitters so that they could still go out in the evenings ... and would be the first to drop their kids off at a party, rush off and the last to pick them up again ...

These "little bullies" were neglected children ...

Of course some are psychopaths .. but that's another matter ...

Anyway as for CC ... she has spent months avoiding apologising to DT. and his wife ... and caused no end of mayhem and thread locks ... so there is definitely something amiss and not quite right with her

Cyber bullying is a crime, at should not be done under any circumstances, what are the admin of this forum doing to counter act this?

I think they gave her a lot of leeway to apologise to DT. ... but she did not use the opportunity .. and then disappeared off ...

I don't think they can force her .. and in the end we are all adults and can choose to ignore Cyberbullying ... by switching off!

We are not forced to be here ... unlike children that are forced to go to school and face their tormentors ... or people to go into an office to work for their upkeep ...

[Sega]

I am sorry to hear this, maybe this is the reason the thread was closed.

Life is complicated ... Sega you opened up in a way that I think will help a lot of people.

I used to help at my son's school on day trips, and because the kids were so young .. they didn't realise they are being watched and some of the things one observed were really sad.

In the end my conclusion was that the ones that behaved like real bullies where the ones that I know had parents that put their work and money first. Would use countless baby sitters so that they could still go out in the evenings ... and would be the first to drop their kids off at a party, rush off and the last to pick them up again ...

These "little bullies" were neglected children ...

Of course some are psychopaths .. but that's another matter ...

Anyway as for CC ... she has spent months avoiding apologising to DT. and his wife ... and caused no end of mayhem and thread locks ... so there is definitely something amiss and not quite right with her

Cyber bullying is a crime, at should not be done under any circumstances, what are the admin of this forum doing to counter act this?

I think they gave her a lot of leeway to apologise to DT. ... but she did not use the opportunity .. and then disappeared off ...

I don't think they can force her .. and in the end we are all adults and can choose to ignore Cyberbullying ... by switching off!

We are not forced to be here ... unlike children that are forced to go to school and face their tormentors ... or people to go into an office to work for their upkeep ...

Yep, they can ban her from the forum, if this is so the case. I know computer games which you get banned from the slightest, result, everybody is really nice to each other.