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by **Cheshire Cat** » Tue Jul 15, 2008 9:49 am

Many People throughout their lives, have suffered at the hands of bullies.

This has caused distress and upset to those people.

Have you ever been bullied ? What punishment should those people recieve ?

by **connor** » Tue Jul 15, 2008 9:51 am

A strong dose of what they dished out works in most cases.

by **Cheshire Cat** » Tue Jul 15, 2008 9:54 am

I have found that Bullies are only brave when they are in gangs, seperate them and they crumble, so you could say that they are cowardly, perhaps they themselves are being bullied in another walk of life ???

Opinions please

by **perdike** » Tue Jul 15, 2008 9:55 am

Those who bully are, at bottom, filled with self-loathing and self-hatred. The 'book answer' is to ignore them, surround them with warmth and acceptance until they HAVE to admit that hatred is LOSERS way . . . but, unfortunately their actions are usually so hatefull that normal flesh and blood (like me) can't hack that path.

by **Cheshire Cat** » Tue Jul 15, 2008 9:57 am

perdike wrote:Those who bully are, at bottom, filled with self-loathing and self-hatred. The 'book answer' is to ignore them, surround them with warmth and acceptance until they HAVE to admit that hatred is LOSERS way . . . but, unfortunately their actions are usually so hatefull that normal flesh and blood (like me) can't hack that path.

I know where you are coming from, also quite often they are so thick skinned that it is impossible to get through to them.

by **purdey** » Tue Jul 15, 2008 9:59 am

Thanks to the likes of Facebook and Friends Reunited, I have managed to track down the playground bullies I encountered when I was at school. I have no need for any retaliation, I am happy with the fact their sad lives have amounted to very little.

by **perdike** » Tue Jul 15, 2008 10:01 am

purdey wrote:Thanks to the likes of Facebook and Friends Reunited, I have managed to track down the playground bullies I encountered when I was at school. I have no need for any retaliation, I am happy with the fact their sad lives have amounted to very little.

Good morning to you sweetie!! Thats a novel aspect of Facebook et al . . very good! :lol:

by **purdey** » Tue Jul 15, 2008 10:02 am

Good morning Ladies, how are you today?

by **Cheshire Cat** » Tue Jul 15, 2008 10:02 am

I tried that Purdey, One person had no idea it was wrong, it was just normal for them. They showed no regrets or remorse. They considered that it was their God given right to make other peoples lives a misery.

by **Cheshire Cat** » Tue Jul 15, 2008 10:04 am

Sorry Purdey,

Good Morning to you, I hope the sun is shining in your life !!!

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