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BULLYING WHY DID I LET IT HAPPEN

Postby MACKAM1955 » Fri Jun 20, 2008 10:24 am

Why did I let this happen to me at my age, at over fifty years old for the last two months I have been degraded and physically and sexually abused by an employer for fxxking a thousand euros a month it would never happen th UK why here, yes im English and yes im a man , I trusted this man as a friend before he asked me to work for him it was fine at first i loved the job and his partner was a friend of mine as well, it started as horse play then sexual remarks towards me then he would start hitting when his friends came along and I was the English MALAKA who he thought because he paid my wages he owned me. One day he hit me so hard he thought he broke his hand and what did his spineless parner do laugh yes laugh as if seeing someone in a corner getting pummled is funny, The last straw came last week when he kicked and punched me in front of his partners daughter whos face il never forget the shock on her face she was speachless, AND THIS IS WHAT HE CALLS FUN?. This man is sick and in time he will really hurt someone, if I had the soarces we have in the UK I would pay for a solicitor and drag him to court the BULLYING BASTARD . No one deserves this treatment no matter race or creed didnt anyone tell these bullies slavery was abolished two hundred years ago EXCEPT IN CYPRUS my case is not the only one its even worse for females STOP BULLYING NOW. :cry:
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Postby kafenes » Fri Jun 20, 2008 10:32 am

....and do you still work for him???
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Postby MACKAM1955 » Fri Jun 20, 2008 10:37 am

No final straw Sunday when they went out for three hour lunch I new things would get out off hand they came back and belittled me so much I just snapped and told them to stick it, they were two weeks late with my monthly wage i cant see me getting that so ive taken all this shit for six weeks with no pay FXXKING WELCOME TO PARADISE :cry:
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Postby Get Real! » Fri Jun 20, 2008 10:40 am

These are serious accusations of a personal civil matter not suitable for a forum. I strongly advise you to report your gripe to the police, lawyer, family, etc, and let justice take its course.

Please get help from the RIGHT sources.
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Postby MACKAM1955 » Fri Jun 20, 2008 11:00 am

I always thought this forum is the best way to seek help and advice and still do excuse me for still being in shock, compassion is the word mate look it up in the dictionery
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Postby DT. » Fri Jun 20, 2008 11:07 am

eric wood wrote:I always thought this forum is the best way to seek help and advice and still do excuse me for still being in shock, compassion is the word mate look it up in the dictionery


Compassion won't help you. There are very strict laws against discrimination and bullying in the workplace in Cyprus. Get a lawyer.
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Postby Oracle » Fri Jun 20, 2008 11:11 am

I am with Get Real! on this one.

If all you say is true ... I would immediately see a lawyer and not discuss it lightly on the forum where you will be open to further abuse.

Unless you are one of those people that has either a hidden agenda against Cyprus ... in which case you will look foolish .... or you enjoy being ridiculed (may explain why you stayed in such a job for so long).

If you have any self-respect ... follow GR!'s advice and get real help ... not here!

By all means entertain yourself here, but leave this serious experience in the hands of the correct resources. :wink:
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Postby MACKAM1955 » Fri Jun 20, 2008 11:16 am

Are you for real ENJOY BEING RIDICLULED thanks for your advice I will seek help and keep serious issues for advice off this forum
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Postby Oracle » Fri Jun 20, 2008 11:18 am

Excellent ... you have more sense than some.

Good luck! :D
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Postby Get Real! » Fri Jun 20, 2008 11:21 am

eric wood wrote:Are you for real ENJOY BEING RIDICLULED thanks for your advice I will seek help and keep serious issues for advice off this forum

Eric, you've made some VERY serious allegations that require professional help not forum talk. If you're serious please start here...

Crisis counseling in Cyprus: 0-777-267
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