by Johnson&Johnson » Wed May 07, 2008 4:30 pm
Let me clear this up once and for all.
I do not hate all Brits.
I just don’t like those that come here and do not learn the language, assimilate into the local culture, or make an effort to adapt to the lifestyle (I guess that's 90% of them)
Just like you probably don't much like those foreigners who move to the UK, live in enclaves, do not make any effort to speak English, etc etc.
Jones mentioned the Muslims in the UK. Well, it’s the same thing with many of the British here. What's the difference ? Neither speak the language of the country they have chosen to live in, neither respect their hosts, and neither are willing to assimilate and integrate.
What never ceases to amaze me is those Brits who come here expecting it to be like England, and are suddenly shocked when things don't go their way.
They wonder why they get ripped off by lying builders (dotcom), why they cant get a job, why certain unscrupulous Cypriots treat them like cows to be milked. And then they go back to the UK after a year, with shattered dreams and empty pockets.
So let me give some pointers to make life here easier :
1) Learn the language before you arrive here. And learn it well. It will help tremendously.
2) Respect your hosts. Remember, we are sensitive after being under brutal British colonial rule for so many years. Many of us had relatives who remember the curfews, some who were killed by British soldiers. Don't treat us like peasants. We took over a barren wasteland from you in 1960, yet we have built it up into a modern state within 40 years, despite three wars (civil, anti colonial, modern technological) and a barrage of other obstacles. We are clever, hardowrking and shrewd. And YES, there are plenty of sharks among us, just as there are many in the UK and elsewhere.
3) Criticize constructively, and lead by example. We know we have problems (bad driving, inefficiency, sexual exploitation in cabarets, etc) but these are OUR problems, and we will sort it out without being mocked. We are indeed shit at many things (policing, organization, etc) but so are you (terminal 5, rocketing crime rates in the UK, etc) and we are getting better. Do not forget that we are a very new country and we have to learn a lot as we go.
Finally, let me just say that I like educated and reasonable people, no matter what the nationality.
Jones, It seems that I hit a raw nerve with you, and I do indeed feel that you are one of those Brits whom I descrbed as being loutish beer swillers.
But maybe I am wrong.