di-di, whereas some may sympathize and others empathize (I being of the former category) with Conor's plight, there are some areas in the dispute which give rise to the question of just where the unpleasantness began.
Obviously the developer's initial intention would be to offer a satisfactory service and a reasonable standard of workmanship to the customer, since that would be the fundamental intention of any business hoping for success which, (in the case of this particular developer) is abundantly clear due to the fact that it is a successful business.
At whatever stage of the development Conor became either anxious or dissatisfied, I personally wonder if he (at that stage) offered insult to the developer, his family and staff members ?, for it does seem rather extraordinary that the developer should suddenly adopt the aggressive attitude Conor describes.
Cypriot people (business or otherwise) take a very dim view of insult and abusive language, if Conor DID resort to such in the early stages of discontent, much can be understood by the retaliatory actions of those offended.
In Conor's Blog ( No 6 part 3 ) on 'You Tube', he invites a professional Lawyer to write a message for the perusal of his Father, the message reads :- "Tell your Father he is a Fucking Cunt !".
I think THAT particular item could seriously damage whatever credibility Conor may have had and I will explain why.
If Conor DID use foul language and insult initially, the developer will of course refer to it in any court action that may be forthcoming as a result of the dispute.
Conor may well deny resorting to the use of such insult and personal abuse and produce that which he may consider to be his 'Trump Card', the fact that he broadcast such a shocking attack on the Lawyer's Father, implying that IF he was prepared to do that quite openly, he would surely have done so earlier as he contends that he is open and honest in all areas of all disputes.
However, the 'Fly in the Ointment' is that he delivered this verbal attack quite calmly, a good Lawyer might well ask what kind of abuse he would be capable of delivering, were he in a fury ?.
I do hope Conor is not relying on the support of those who are also prepared to join in the condemnation of the entire Cypriot Legal and Professional Administrations here, I fear his campaign may well seriously backfire should he do so.
As the developer did inform Conor at one stage, "This is Cyprus", I think he may have been referring to the fact that the people here have a little more respect for themselves and their families than is currently visible in the U.K.
I do hope Conor receives a just settlement, I stll believe that the correct route for him to take is one of less vehemence and more readiness to accept that HE TOO may have made mistakes somewhere along the way.
Best Wishes to Conor and his Family, sometimes a little criticism is superior to blind agreement.
In my humble opinion.