Dear kezzih
You will learn that the world is full of 'internet warriors', people who behave in manner on the Web that they would never adopt in real life - I hope!
Some comments here are made in humour, some in malevolence - you will get to know which are which, as you learn more about the members of the Forum. Having said that there are large areas of intelligensia and wit, which makes this place all worthwhile.
Humanist, I am sure you have seen many of the 'behind the bike-sheds' slanging matches - surely these people are embarrassed when they re-read, what they wrote, the following day. Hopefully, you are spared the worst by the Moderator's 'Damoclian' Delete button
Lana