halil wrote:dear friends DT and Miltiades ,
İ agree with miltiades remarks ,
DT , we (the parents) first must direct our kids with correct information and we must teach them how to live in peace together , even if they goes to army , it doesn't mean they can hate each other .They might do their duty on the borders but if we teach them right things they can not provocate others at borders or do silly things between each other . Soon my son will go to army as well . I didn't teach him to hate GC's or others . he is very sensible guy . Soon he will finished his university .He has no any change he has to go army for 15-18 months . It is only wasting his valuable time from his life .what else we can do ...at the moment nothing but what we can do give them good advise not to do silly things .tell them be sensible .
second comes from our schools we must not wash these Young's brains with hate and racism we must not find excuse , what they are doing now .we must tell them what kind of harms they are giving for us , with these kind of actions we can not gain anything but we can lost many things.
My dear Halil , I know that you have brought up your son to be a decent human being and not full of hate for his compatriots. You have invited me on more than one occasion to come and stay in your house, that in itself is enough for me to know that I , and my wife , would be MORE than welcome into your house. I respect you because you represent all that is good in the T/Cs , your part of that huge majority of T/Cs who aspire for peace , forgiveness and reconciliation .