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[Oracle]

Whilst Big Al found himself unable to hold his own with me in our discussion this morning, and chose instead to hurl abuse, I hope he realises his anger has a positive role to play.

Principles that show anger has a positive role

1. Anger energizes

2. Anger provides a contrast for serenity

3. Anger shows we care

4. Anger reveals our passion for life

5. Anger is a warning bell for others

[Get Real!]

:lol: C'mon Guys - anyone got a hot and spicy one for her???

Should we assume that's the reason you moved to the "TRNC"?

[Get Real!]

Oracle's 'problem' is simple: She hates anything and everything that is Turkish. That includes Turkish Cypriots. Not much more one can say about her.

The "tricky" part is figuring out why...

[purdey]

Anger shows lack of self control. It is a weakness, expoited by those who have self control. Many a battle has been lost because anger takes over rational thinking.
Phoenix suffers from neither, she plays a game, and enjoys the fallout experienced.
She is the ultimate AGENT PROVOCATEUR.

[Oracle]

Anger shows lack of self control. It is a weakness, expoited by those who have self control. Many a battle has been lost because anger takes over rational thinking.
Phoenix suffers from neither, she plays a game, and enjoys the fallout experiencedShe is the ultimate AGENT PROVOCATEUR.

Very interesting, purdey .... Although I would not use the word "enjoy" ... but the fallout as a consequence must be dealt with, and therein lies the challenge.

The only things that bore me in this game, is that one cannot chose one's opponents, and a remark made to one, may be hijacked by another, who may be less able to deliver the yearned for mental challenge but instead offer obscene exchanges .... like Big Al here .... And contrary to their egos desires... I do not enjoy obscenities one little bit ... However I think they know this, and that is where they get their fulfillment .....

But again that is the price one has to pay when one wants mental gymnastics. And just as with physical exercise, there is no gain without pain ....

However there is no getting away from the anger that I feel at the injustices the Turks perpetrate ... and that is the central focus of my "games" to find solutions or exercise my faculties enough to find them by some other means, hence use the anger positively .....

I do believe:

Anger can be brought out into the open – felt, experienced and respected as a basic human reaction to a felt injustice.

[tessintrnc]

:lol: C'mon Guys - anyone got a hot and spicy one for her???

Should we assume that's the reason you moved to the "TRNC"?

Maybe............................

[Oracle]

Oracle's 'problem' is simple: She hates anything and everything that is Turkish. That includes Turkish Cypriots. Not much more one can say about her.

The "tricky" part is figuring out why...

It is in the analyses of the reasons why, when they cannot face what they hear that, unable to justify their actions, they lose all rationality, get ANGRY and take it out on me .....

[observer]

I wrote this a couple of weeks ago, and nothing has caused me to change my opinion.

Oracle’s contributions remind me strongly of a little 4-year old girl's behaviour in the company of adults. When she feels the adults are not paying her enough attention, she starts being cheeky, or rude, or showing her knickers - anything to draw attention to herself. It might be amusing at first, but the adults quickly tire of her.

Even her disappearance as Phoenix was very much like a 4-year old's behaviour- "I'm going to leave home then you'll all be sorry". Instead, of course, the 4-year old goes upstairs and hides under her bed, waiting for a search party to start looking for her. When they don't she gets bored and comes downstairs to pester the adults again, pretending that nothing has happened. Just like Phoenix reappearing as Oracle.

There is no real solution except to wait for the child in question to grow up, and in the meanwhile ignore her.

I don't think she's really angry, she's just seeking attention.

[denizaksulu]

Oracle's 'problem' is simple: She hates anything and everything that is Turkish. That includes Turkish Cypriots. Not much more one can say about her.

The "tricky" part is figuring out why...

It is in the analyses of the reasons why, when they cannot face what they hear that, unable to justify their actions, they lose all rationality, get ANGRY and take it out on me .....

[Oracle]

The sooner you all look at the logs in your own eyes and stop picking on me, the better for all of us including the forum.

Contrary to popular belief I do not look for attention (I prefer solitude) ..... this like much else, has been thrust upon me because Big Al could not cope with my arguments this morning.

Whenever a Turk-TC or other fails to win an argument, they indeed are the ones, observer, to throw the tantrums and start threads such as this or the hurling of obscenities. They are the ones showing their knickers for attention because they fail in the discussions ....

I started a thread a while back to ask why the Cyprus problem is exclusively male ....

Well this is the reason why.

Any women participating in the Cyprus problem are hounded and picked on like this until they pack up and leave ....

Well get used to it I am here to stay for as long as I choose ... and because I stay ... you lot get angrier and angrier because you cannot face making up any more lies to counter the reasons why you occupy half my country.

You or any other misguided Turk is not going to ridicule me off the forum with your disgusting mouths ... I will ridicule you out of my country first.