shahmaran
Wow thats a big step backwards from Humanist, what happened to you?
I just feel disillussioned Shah, I believe we are our largest enemy. The constant victimhood and who suffered more. If you go back to my initial posts on this forum you will find that it was very critical of the RoC and its lack of action toward enabling TC's to feel part of their country. However, now I kinda feel that the TC community also needs to take resposnibility if they truly want unification and I guess I don't see that. The other issue of late that caused me real pain and therefore a sense of carelessness on the part of the TC about what has happened to the other side too and particualrly a post on the missing just made me realise rightly or wrongly that TC somehow fees that its okay to have missing persons so long they are not TC.
Some may say here he goes again, but I wish to put things in context. My grandmother lost her 17 years old son during the Turkish invasion in 1974 and she died about ten years ago not knowing the fate of her son. Luckily his remains were found four years ago and through DNA my mother was able to burry her brother in a State funeral, but my grandmother although probably with her son now didn't know what happened. When I read posts deveuing that older women's experience and her loss it pissess me right off and the hurt just zooms about like a harricane.
hence my coments.
I know we all indulge in what happened to our resective communities. But I do believe that if we truly want a Unified Cyprus we all of us on this forum and in our daily lives need to act in a way that will bring unity to our country not the other way around. Yes we need to learn from the past no doubt and we need to acknowledge the wrong to each other by each other, but we can also change our situation to a better one where all Cypriots feel equlity and opportunity. Neither we unfortunately nor our leaders are moving towarsd that direction.
Thank you f for noticing anyway. I hope my response helps you in your question to me.
Regards
Andreas