GorillaGal wrote:Sega wrote:GorillaGal wrote:so it's all about money?
funny, i had a job that didn't pay well, and i barely could make ends meet. then 9-11 happened, and i lost my job. but still, i found a way to help the victims. i made a small investment, in post cards, and sold them on eBay, with the proceeds going to help the victims and families. from a $20 investment, i raised over $800 for charity.
i do not think it so difficult to find one day a week to donate a few hours to help those less fortunate. hey, one day a month? 5 or 6 hours out of approximately 720 hours in a month?
god forbid if someone might find out you did something to help someone else.
You misinterpretted me, it's a combination of things, not only money. You cannot compare Cyprus to 9-11. If 9-11 happened in Cyprus you will see how people would unite. Generally the people from the NYC are renouned for the manners, but being polite/well mannared and being united as two different things.
but 9-11 wan't about killing americans. there werwe all kinds of nationalities that died that day.
and that was just an example.
do you have to wait until tehre is a national disaster to help one another?
i can't believe there is no room for improvement in CY. or if the majority of the people there think that, it is just really sad.
I was wrong, I don't think your willing to understand. I gave it you in black and white and still you persist. Most people do everything here through there own, find jobs, buy cars, houses and even finding you marital partner. If you need help go to your own, this is how it is. Other people do exist, but they also cater for their own.
Let me give you an example, my relative is getting married soon, she already has a job given to her using family ties, her house was built by her parents and guess who will babysit...... her own! This is how it is, difference is not bad, it's just different, you reponding in a negative way because you cannot comprehend it.