Mills Chapman wrote:Hi Lena,
I agree with a lot of what you said. Ideally she won't need a list, and this list is not ideal, but it's like a last resort when people have tried to conclude through other means. I have someone very close to me who doubts herself a lot and who had a very hard time deciding if she was in love with a guy (and she had been in love with someone else before).
Probably because she was hurt from the previous relationship. Sometimes you think you are in love but after you really fell in love you realise that it was all just attraction.
I am sorry Mills but I totally disagree with books that tells you how you feel and how you should feel and think and what to do if you want to be successful as a businessman as a husband etc etc. So I do disagree with those points. If life and feelings were so easy we were all be happy.