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Postby LENA » Tue Feb 05, 2008 9:58 pm

Mills Chapman wrote:Hi Lena,

I agree with a lot of what you said. Ideally she won't need a list, and this list is not ideal, but it's like a last resort when people have tried to conclude through other means. I have someone very close to me who doubts herself a lot and who had a very hard time deciding if she was in love with a guy (and she had been in love with someone else before).



Probably because she was hurt from the previous relationship. Sometimes you think you are in love but after you really fell in love you realise that it was all just attraction.

I am sorry Mills but I totally disagree with books that tells you how you feel and how you should feel and think and what to do if you want to be successful as a businessman as a husband etc etc. So I do disagree with those points. If life and feelings were so easy we were all be happy.
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Postby Mills Chapman » Tue Feb 05, 2008 10:17 pm

LENA wrote:Probably because she was hurt from the previous relationship. Sometimes you think you are in love but after you really fell in love you realise that it was all just attraction..


That's what happened.

LENA wrote:I am sorry Mills but I totally disagree with books that tells you how you feel and how you should feel and think and what to do if you want to be successful as a businessman as a husband etc etc. So I do disagree with those points. If life and feelings were so easy we were all be happy.


I agree with you in that books should not be used this way, but they should still be considered at least as a last resort. I have more than one person in my life at the moment who always bemoans to me their lack of good things happening at the moment (their happiness, etc.) and at the same time they reject the suggestion of looking at some specific books that have gotten good reviews (for whatever their particular case is, like my relative who is a divorced woman in her 60s, etc). Books should be the last option, but they should still be an option.

Enjoy your day, Lena. - Mills
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Postby Sophia1 » Tue Feb 05, 2008 10:18 pm

Thanks for your advice people

1) I am not an old lady

2) Whats wrong with being a virgin?

Im just going to go with the flow... Thank you so much xxx
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Postby zan » Tue Feb 05, 2008 10:24 pm

Sophia1 wrote:Thanks for your advice people

1) I am not an old lady

2) Whats wrong with being a virgin?

Im just going to go with the flow... Thank you so much xxx


Who the hell is flow and does your boyfriend know you are leaving him????











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Postby Sophia1 » Tue Feb 05, 2008 10:27 pm

No Im not leaving him, may be Im being harsh coz I've never really had a proper relationship and Im use to being alone..
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Postby Phill » Tue Feb 05, 2008 10:29 pm

Sophia, there is nothing wrong in remaing a virgin, or having lost it. Sometimes the close people around you will get a good or a bad vibe about your partner, listen to them, as they might pick up on something you have missed, but listen most to your gut feelng. Just remember there is no rush and should be no pressure.
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Postby Phill » Tue Feb 05, 2008 10:32 pm

Sophia, just make sure you don't end up with someone like Aiden... or you'll end up being Mrs Palmer and her five children...
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Postby Mills Chapman » Tue Feb 05, 2008 10:46 pm

zan wrote:
Sophia1 wrote:Thanks for your advice people

1) I am not an old lady

2) Whats wrong with being a virgin?

Im just going to go with the flow... Thank you so much xxx


Who the hell is flow and does your boyfriend know you are leaving him????



:lol:


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Postby IcyNoAngel » Tue Feb 05, 2008 11:11 pm

Sophia1 wrote:Thanks for your advice people

1) I am not an old lady

2) Whats wrong with being a virgin?

Im just going to go with the flow... Thank you so much xxx


1. how old are you?
2. we can fix that. no worries. 8)
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Postby Sophia1 » Tue Feb 05, 2008 11:41 pm

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