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Postby Viewpoint » Wed Mar 30, 2005 10:00 pm

MicAtCyp

For this second part ozur dilerim (I am very sorry) and please accept my apologies.



Are you well?, have you bumped your head on something? when did pigs start to fly??

You hurled all that abuse and even questioned my gender.

Then you apologise. :?

Put it this way can you repair shattered glass??

Unfortunately for all of us GCs, like you create a very bad impression on us, so much so that we automatically put up defences that in a normal conversation or debate we would not do, this makes your own job of puting your point of view accross more difficult and we switch of and ignore your concerns, its a viscious circle, we bring out the worst in each other but at the same time fuel mistrust.

I accept your apology and thankyou for it, in light of this gesture I will try to be more objective and sensative towards your comments and concerns.
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Postby Piratis » Wed Mar 30, 2005 10:24 pm

Put it this way can you repair shattered glass??


Viewpoint: The person that never forgives. (I am talking in general, not in just this personal matter)

VP, you often talk as if you don't need to forgive, and others should pay the price of their mistakes. Thats all nice and well, until you actually realize that you (and your side in general) had made a ton of mistakes and crimes also.

Therefore if you do not forgive, you will not be forgiven, and if you punish, you will be punished.

So what do you choose? To continue punishing each other, or to forgive each other and stop the crimes once and for all?
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Postby MicAtCyp » Wed Mar 30, 2005 11:06 pm

Viewpoint,
You dont understand. I am not trying to earn your trust! My glass is totally broken a long time ago...
What I want you and my self to have is a new glass after a solution that will respect each other for whatever both you and us are, so noone will brake it.
Until that happens we are both left with our broken glasses.
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Postby Viewpoint » Wed Mar 30, 2005 11:27 pm

so MicAtCyp you were not sincere in your apology and we should not trust each other until we have solution.
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Postby brother » Thu Mar 31, 2005 4:00 pm

for crying out loud will you guys get a grip and work on repairing the done damage rather than at every given opportunity to insult each other.
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Postby MicAtCyp » Thu Mar 31, 2005 4:35 pm

No Viewpoint I am sincere to that, but like you said there is currently a broken glass between the communities that prevents genuine trust.
Woops I have to edit it once more since I forgot.
What I wanted to say I did not apologise to "earn your trust". I apologised because it was a mistake. If you can trust me its upto you-I mean i will not do anything to force it. I will always say what I beleive.
Everything ok now? I hope so. :)
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Postby Viewpoint » Thu Mar 31, 2005 5:41 pm

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[/quote]What I wanted to say I did not apologise to "earn your trust".(quote)

Dont we have to start somewhere in order to build trust? isnt apologising a good start??? but hey no one is forcing anyone.

[/quote]Everything ok now? I hope so. [quote]

OK, I now understand the weight of your apology and will continue with mis-trusting you.

That OK?
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