For this second part ozur dilerim (I am very sorry) and please accept my apologies.
Are you well?, have you bumped your head on something? when did pigs start to fly??
You hurled all that abuse and even questioned my gender.
Then you apologise.
Put it this way can you repair shattered glass??
Unfortunately for all of us GCs, like you create a very bad impression on us, so much so that we automatically put up defences that in a normal conversation or debate we would not do, this makes your own job of puting your point of view accross more difficult and we switch of and ignore your concerns, its a viscious circle, we bring out the worst in each other but at the same time fuel mistrust.
I accept your apology and thankyou for it, in light of this gesture I will try to be more objective and sensative towards your comments and concerns.