i agree Bill..i think it's just how people are i suppose,,,i found out however including me that when you live abroad and see two sides of things as you mentioned you do think differently,,,e.g when i drive in cyprus now (after driving in the UK) i am more vigilant and get pissed of on how people still drive there...depsite the fact that before i came to the uk i used to drive and think the same way...
i think we have this -it's not goign to happen to me- idea in our heads..until it happens...and yet some people dont appreciate the second chance they are given....on the other hand you may go out for a walk...trip over a rock,,,and bye bye so,,,its catch 22 end of day...