You don't know the Cyprus history and I doubt you speak Greek. Do you even have the Cypriot citizenship? Did you serve in the Cyprus army? Half Greek Cypriot? Please!!! From what you say you sound like a typical British.
First of all uniting our own island with Greece was the 100% legitimate choice of the people of Cyprus. Why the hell should UK or Turkey force on us their will? Did we tell them what to do with their own countries or how to share power with their own minorities?
The conflicts in Cyprus between GCs and TCs were initiated by the British when they used the TC minority on the island as an excuse to deny to the Cypriot people their freedom and self determination. Here I explain this in detail:
http://www.cyprus-forum.com/viewtopic.php?t=14652
That conflict was both ways and both sides suffered a few 100s of casualties each. Furthermore that conflict was over by 1968, and it had
nothing to do with the Turkish invasion of 1974. In 1974 no TC was harmed until
after Turkey with the collaboration of the TC minority invaded Cyprus and started to kill Cypriots by the 1000s.
The occupation of our country is unjust, illegal and inexcusable. No lame excuses can take away from us the lands we existed for 1000s of years. The Turks and the British came to our island uninvited for the sole reason of enslaving us and exploiting our island. Today they continue to violate our rights and occupy our lands and if thats not enough they are trying to blame us on top of it trying to convince us that we deserve to be punished because we wanted to rule our own island.