Well after getting around a dozen invitations for Christmas dinner from various parts of the family we finally accepted the invitation from my niece whose husband has just left her for the second time .
It seemed the best bet because which ever of the other family we went to every one of the others would complain and get upset.
It was a get out of trouble card and the rest of the family understood as shes my favourite niece and alone at Xmas ~ ideal solution .
Except I have never ever experienced such a dysfunctional family in my whole life ~~ it's been my worst ever Christmas and narrowly avoiding hospital treatment on a couple of occasions ~~ a nightmare.
Not to be repeated next year though as I've already decided to have Christmas in Prague and balls to the relatives.
Bill ~~ had my pills and a lie down and now slowly returning to sanity