phoenix wrote:utu wrote:You know, Phoenix. You're just making things worse for him. I've read his posts - and Aidan's - regarding Maori women. From what I have read, Expatkiwi has had some pretty nasty run-in's in his past, which - judging from what his posts say happened during his school days - has colored his thinking about over-assertive women. And since your posts on this forum have made clear your over-assetivenesss, is it any wonder he regards you in that same light?
. . . . I think it's time you changed his nappy.
Start a thread for psychologically traumatised Kiwis and I am sure we can get to the bottom of both your problems. Co-dependency springs to mind.
Phoenix, do me a favor and get lost!