CC,
I really do hope you fare better in France. Having lived with the French for a while, I find that they an be just as mercenary and venal as the rest of us. Perhaps it was like that where I was, in the southeast. But I found that they are just as quick as Cypriots to switch from the "comme vou voulez" mode to the "con de ta mere" mode. In fact the phrases translate word for word into colloquial Cypriot.
A bank blunder landed my in Limoges for a week without money. I was treated like garbage for six days. The seventh day the money arrived and I became Monsieur with a capital M once again. Sort of reflects your Cyprus experience.
But for sheer style and quality of life I too would veer towards France, but in a different part, somewhere where I am within driving distance of Spain or Italy. Living in France and being able to hop over to Barcelona or Milano is more my dream.