I do believe you Utu. This place can even be frightening at times but it is the culmination of people's constant frustration that creates this.
It’s very tempting and easy to pick a side here and fight for them because there are a few adamant extremists that ensure the waters are never calm.
The problem with a lot of the extremists is that they believe in the righteousness of their position. What I've been trying to do is to cut through a lot of that crap. Yes, I beleive that both sides have suffered and that the economic isolation of the north is making the situation worse. However, I also believe that the Greek Cypriot people that lost their properties in the north have a right of redress - either through the return of those properties, or proper compensation. The presence of the two Britsh bases also makes a mockery of Cypriot independence.
Cyprus' Turkish and Greek communities are both a curse and a blessing to the island. The curse being extreme nationalism to either Turkey or Greece, and the blessing that both communities contribute to what makes Cypriots unique. A unitary state can only truly work if the nationalistic element is removed. Otherwise, federation is the next best thing.