Devil,
It is an interesting contribution and it always helps to have the view of a committed and friendly outsider.
I see many similarities between Cyprus and Ireland. The same imperial overlords, importation of settlers who have become differentiated from the mainland population but not fully assimilated into the local one, two mutually exclusive aims, ie partition and union etc. The one difference is that while the Unionists in Ireland want Ulster to remain British there is no equivalent demand in Cyprus, yet. In time it is arguable that Ireland will be one country by virtue of the progress made by the Republic of Ireland which will work its way through to Ulster. Nothing convinces like prosperity!
To add to your post about "pretended losses". Cyprus is small and those of us born there are attached to localities as well as to the whole island. It is impossible to let go of your personal history and attachments, more so if you can drive to your place of birth in a few minutes but are denied access to it permanently. Any solution must adress these local peculiarities. Above all it must feel fair to the vast majority of Cypriots. Even partition can be made to feel fair if it is mindful of the sensitivities of all Cypriots. One factor that nullifies all pretenses of fairness is the importation of foreign settlers. I can accept losing my property to a fellow Cypriot, in exchange for peace, but I cannot stomach the granting of my property to an imported colonist. Turkis Cypriots realise this but cannot do anything about it because to do so would bring them into confrontation with Turkey.
To get back to partition, I agree with you, if partiotioned officially into two independent states, or if the present situation looks like becoming permanent, then there will be two armed camps in Cyprus and double union will be inevitable. The Republic will have no option but to unite or get into some serious defense agreement with a power that can balance Turkey. Having four army divisions and 400 tanks and ari bases in the south would do that and then it would be the realisation of Turkey's geopolitical nighmare, the one it wanted to prevent by the invasion. Funny how the world changes!