It's fine zan. You are entitled to have a say, but this doesn't mean that we must agree on everything nor does it mean that we are not on the same side just because we disagree on something.
It might seem this way but I'm NOT ashamed of my Turkishness IN THE SLIGHTEST! Given the choice I'd still choose to be a TC and I think I have made that clear in my posts from day one.
Saying that theres just no denying that the TCs have a 500 year gap in their history when compared to the Turks from Turkey. We can't just ignore this and doing so causes resentment towards those (ATCA&Co) trying to deny me this part of my history. In the 500 years we've been in Cyprus we've evolved with the rest of the people living here...this is why we are even visually different than the mainlanders. This is the reason why TCs and GCs have the exact same "style" of doing certain things. Even the little things like how they maintain their gardens are the same. I don't think any nationalist has had any contact with GCs other than on forums. If they were to visit the South then they would be SHOCKED (as I was) if they saw how similar we are. There really isn't no point denying this because it's there for all to see if people want to look hard enough.
Sorry but I am not stupid enough to fall for the GCs cries of "just Cypriot" nor am I stupid enough to fall for the Turks' "just Turk" bullshit!
The Turks don't even care about the Cypriot part of our identity and it's obvious from our own nationalists. If for instance Turkey was to get legal rights to Cyprus do you think she would think twice about bulldozing parts of Karpaz to turn into holiday camp just because it has sentimental value to the Turkish Cypriots?
This is what I mean...the Turks (through no fault of their own) cannot maintain our "distinctness" nor can they comprehend the Cypriot part of our identity.
I'm not suggesting that we get rid of them all, but we MUST ensure that nothing endangers our identity or our traditions. I mean imagine taking a whole village from Hatay and moving them to the mountains of Trabzon. CAN YOU JUST IMAGINE how the Karadenizliler would react!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? Even though they are Turks and even from the same country I can assure you that the Trabzonlular would reign fire on the new arrivals!!!!!