zan wrote:LENA wrote:Zan VP was acting like a brainless kid. I thought he knew how to control himself and how to talk. He proved me wrong one more time. I am really angry when i see members talking about others member’s life and especially family or whatever. How many wives Kikapu had is his own problem and not VP’s. Some of his post really made me angry. The way he was posting in this thread was out of control. What give him the right to insult and swear like that. What give him the right to judge others lives. Is he a God or perfect? I thought he was an adult who control himself and who knows how to talk and debate. What I read was not CIVIL!
As for the rest you wrote down my dear Zan, I respect VP very much comparing with other GCs around here for what he stands for and what he fights for. Most of the times his post are reasonable in his own view and has a way to express himself so his post are not either boring or cruel, but when sometimes loose control he loose many people’s respect. Including mine. I do swear a lot but not in the forum (always try to control my self but..). I dont mind the f* words any more around here or the name calling if is not too bad....but that cross the line. I am really sensitive when it comes to personal life and family issues. I am human too Zan and I am not perfect. Really, i am not as calm and sweet as i sometimes look around here and people who really know me from this forum can tell that. But the passion you show here to defend VP for his actions make me even more mad with you...is that the period after menstruation that you are calm and cuddly?
RichardB thanks for your good words.
Sorry Lana I just felt I had to reply on that.
Humanist, any photos from Paphos and Larnaca?
I will start with a plain Sorry!!!!
I tried to make you feel better and it backfired in my face. I too wish that the word had not been used and ask both these guys from using it again, although my sentiments about how I feel about the word after watching Germain Greer still stand. VP, you have a lot to say and this has taken a lot away from the important issues. I really really was trying to calm things down but again, it backfired. If only for my sake please do not use this word again...It seems that everything else is fine so we do have other ways of expressing ourselves. Don't fall into Kikapus traps because he is revelling in this. He refuses to understand where we are coming from and stirs things up like a manic cyclone.
Anyway...You can be mad at me Lena because I know it won't last long....You can only imagine my green eyes but when I give you that look I have.....You will melt......
Sometimes imagination is better than the real thing.
zan you to see how this scum bag provokes with his vile and twisted posts and has not one good thing to say about TCs or the TRNC, he has made his choice and expects us to do the same blindly on his word, what makes him an expert a person who has not interacted with TCs for over 43 years has not even had the courage to visit us in our own country and does not posses a TC bone his body expects us to follow him to the promised land. He deserves all the verbal abuse because he dishes out the same maybe not using the same vocabulary but the meaning is the same, which ever way you look at it he is a scum bag and no sane TC would give him the time of day, he has sided with GCs and is happy to whore himself out but he must not tell us its the right thing to do from the comfort of his armchair thousands of miles away.
I respect your request to stop using that word and I will do so not because it is not appropriate but only because it offends others.