Cyprus-Forum.com

[jonmig]

hi guys I have just returned from partying in Ayia Napa with my 2 friends (all aged in our 30's) ,we had a great trouble free time and behaved impeccably respecting everyone around us ,now after meeting quite a few english ladies we also attempted a couple of times to speak to the beautiful russian ladies as well only to be treated like we were invisible....

the scene:
I wandered over to 3 ladies in the redsquare ,"said hello how are you?
me and my friends hoped that you were having a good time and wondered if you could understand us well enough to have a chat and a laff" (very vague but I'm sure you get the gist) ,to this I was greeted with 3 ladies feeling very uncomfortable and eager to get rid of us ,I tried my best to be nice but basically we had to give up when we began to be rudely ignored and made to look foolish unlike I might add the many successful greek men that we saw talking to these beautiful looking people all week.

has anybody got any idea why these ladies behaved that way as we never once resembled the lowtish piss-heads on holiday that the English reputation seems to portray in these resorts ,infact we are all young businessmen we stayed in a top class hotel and of course we knew how to behave abroad....

just to add to this little scenario on our journey home who should walk past us in the airport but these 3 same ladies ,as soon as they saw me they started laughing and waving at us as they left for their plane ,I pulled a friendly face and they giggled at me,this made me think oops maybe we may have read things wrong and possibly they didn't understand us afterall...but somehow I don't think so :0( ,gee I don't know has anybody got any answers please lol

Mike UK ayia napa 19-26 sept

[Hazza]

Perhaps they didn't fancy you? perhaps they weren't there to be pulled but instead have a great time on their own?

I don't think everyone goes out to pull or be pulled.

[Eric dayi]

"cold war" mate, that's what it is.

[twinkle]

Perhaps they were looking for a long term relationship and not a holiday fling. Although most Cyps would probably hump 'em and dump 'em anyway

[devil]

...and of course we knew how to behave abroad....

Oh, no you don't!

[Nikitas]

It's an Orthodox plot Jonmig!

On the other hand there might be a cultural thing about how males approach females in Russia.

But in the future just to be on the safe side wear a small cross around your neck (it is the customary gift from the godparents to the godchild on Christening, worn by Orthodox Russians, Greeks etc for life) any ploy helps.

[jonmig]

re devil

please don't judge everyone by the same standards I can assure you we do and we did !!! ...
everybody else thank you for your interesting insites so far....

[oranos64]

You need to expand on your methods and techniques ... next time you go up there let me know ..ill let you join my mob ,,,,never have a problem pulling /chatting up ladies of different cultures ...

Russian ladies tend to go for tidy looking guys ,who are confident ,fit looking guys ...do you fit under those three groups ...most locals dont ....

[Eric dayi]

It's an Orthodox plot Jonmig!

On the other hand there might be a cultural thing about how males approach females in Russia.

But in the future just to be on the safe side wear a small cross around your neck (it is the customary gift from the godparents to the godchild on Christening, worn by Orthodox Russians, Greeks etc for life) any ploy helps.

Is it something like "keeping it in the family" Nikitas?

[oranos64]

It's an Orthodox plot Jonmig!

On the other hand there might be a cultural thing about how males approach females in Russia.

But in the future just to be on the safe side wear a small cross around your neck (it is the customary gift from the godparents to the godchild on Christening, worn by Orthodox Russians, Greeks etc for life) any ploy helps.

please ....Nik I DONT THINK THAT WILL HELP HIM ....

I have never heard nor been told by a russian girl
"well before i approached you .. i checked your neck line for a crucifix ...because you know ..being orthodox .. i want to jog horizontil ,with my religious brothers "

let the chap check him self ,respect himself and stuff ...it has never failed me nor my mates /brother

hahhahaha crucifix ...sercret signs ....clueless