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[phoenix]

I haven't gone through the posts with a fine tooth comb, but the impression I have is that someone wants us to remove any guilt they may have in accepting the job. . .

. . or may want praise for patronizingly refusing it on higher grounds.

The right thing would have been to not even entertain the notion . . .
i.e. . . .have turned it right down, just as you should if "tempted" by a bargain property in the occupied section.

[kurupetos]

Maybe now you understand how we feel and why we don't want to live under Greek/GC rule.

Judging by your avatar you've clearly chosen who you want to live under so when do you plan to paddle back to Turkey?

Do you want to spoil another good thread with your drivel you Turk hater?

BTW, I am not going anywhere, if anything I might move from Lefkosa to Magusa or Yesil Irmak.

I have answered your childish question, the responsibility of ruining this thread now rests on your shoulders.

You so often complain about the ENOSIS fanatics who wanted to unite with Greece yet you fail to recognize your desire for ENOSIS with yet another foreign country… Turkey!

What makes you so different from the GC ENOSIS seekers?

Again, I don't know where you get your lies from but I never ever mentioned that I want ENOSIS.

Where do you get off for Gods sake!

Then please explain why you carry this... irrelevant to Cypriots flag, if not to provoke by giving the impression that you are a ENOSIS supporter?

I will again call you a liar and repeat that I do not support ENOSIS.

"Cypriot" flag, are you kidding? I would prefer the KKTC flag but I am not allowed so I use the Turkish flag to prove that I am a Turkish Cypriots and not a Greek Cypriot.

The "Cypriot" flag was as the name "RoC" stolen by the GCs in 1963 and does no longer resperent me so why should I use the "Cypriot" flag as my avatar?

Again, I do NOT support ENOSIS.

Stolen? That's new. You should be voted member of the month for this one.

[Eric dayi]

Maybe now you understand how we feel and why we don't want to live under Greek/GC rule.

Judging by your avatar you've clearly chosen who you want to live under so when do you plan to paddle back to Turkey?

Do you want to spoil another good thread with your drivel you Turk hater?

BTW, I am not going anywhere, if anything I might move from Lefkosa to Magusa or Yesil Irmak.

I have answered your childish question, the responsibility of ruining this thread now rests on your shoulders.

You so often complain about the ENOSIS fanatics who wanted to unite with Greece yet you fail to recognize your desire for ENOSIS with yet another foreign country… Turkey!

What makes you so different from the GC ENOSIS seekers?

Again, I don't know where you get your lies from but I never ever mentioned that I want ENOSIS.

Where do you get off for Gods sake!

Then please explain why you carry this... irrelevant to Cypriots flag, if not to provoke by giving the impression that you are a ENOSIS supporter?

I will again call you a liar and repeat that I do not support ENOSIS.

"Cypriot" flag, are you kidding? I would prefer the KKTC flag but I am not allowed so I use the Turkish flag to prove that I am a Turkish Cypriots and not a Greek Cypriot.

The "Cypriot" flag was as the name "RoC" stolen by the GCs in 1963 and does no longer resperent me so why should I use the "Cypriot" flag as my avatar?

Again, I do NOT support ENOSIS.

Stolen? That's new. You should be voted member of the month for this one.

STOLEN and not even paid for in the name of ENOSIS as was the name "RoC".

[Svetlana]

This is NOT the CyProb Section and any further postings which do not relate to the Title of the thread will be deleted.

Lana

[Niki]

I haven't gone through the posts with a fine tooth comb, but the impression I have is that someone wants us to remove any guilt they may have in accepting the job. . .

. . or may want praise for patronizingly refusing it on higher grounds.

The right thing would have been to not even entertain the notion . . .
i.e. . . .have turned it right down, just as you should if "tempted" by a bargain property in the occupied section.

I had made my mind up as stated if you had bother to read the thread before making sweeping judgements.

You give me very little room for making the 'right' choice - accept the job and live with guilt (but have been vindicated by this thread ) or refuse the job and wait for 'praise'. This is not my perspective, this is yours.

This simply emphasises the fact that this decision is not an easy one which ever way it goes.

[CopperLine]

That's no different to catching your spouse in bed with someone else and then justifying it because there must be thousands of others out there sleeping around anyway!

Get Real,
No it isn't. I was not asking whether you could excuse or justify this action because of other actions. I was trying to see whether helping to think about how one makes decisions in other cases and dilemmas - the ones I listed and thousands more - provides a means of answering Niki's current dilemma. I wasn't telling her what she should do nor how to make an excuse/justification.

[halil]

when people are trying to work together or trying to talk eachother , interfere and stop them is not propaganda. but if u write down otherside of the coin it is a propaganda .
Good luck to all of us .

[phoenix]

I haven't gone through the posts with a fine tooth comb, but the impression I have is that someone wants us to remove any guilt they may have in accepting the job. . .

. . or may want praise for patronizingly refusing it on higher grounds.

The right thing would have been to not even entertain the notion . . .
i.e. . . .have turned it right down, just as you should if "tempted" by a bargain property in the occupied section.

I had made my mind up as stated if you had bother to read the thread before making sweeping judgements.

You give me very little room for making the 'right' choice - accept the job and live with guilt (but have been vindicated by this thread ) or refuse the job and wait for 'praise'. This is not my perspective, this is yours.

This simply emphasises the fact that this decision is not an easy one which ever way it goes.

Niki : I HAD noticed your comment stating you had made your mind up which is WHY I was perplexed as to your reasoning behind needing to know what others would do. . .

On a deeper level you need to analyse WHY you feel the need for approval or a reprimand from others.

I take it you're a grown woman who is capable of making everyday decisions satisfactorily, therefore, use the same criteria:

1. Make your decision and live with the consequences.
2. Declare WHAT you have decided to do and state you exercised your right to Freedom of Choice . . so sod off to us!
3. Or. . . . in my opinion . . . the mere entertainment of the idea to work in a part of the country that is OCCUPIED by a foreign army means you are a complete AIRHEAD!

On the one hand you state you HAVE made your mind up and yet you still say "whichever way it goes". . . .

Based on this fuddled logic of yours, I would never offer you a job! So take the job, it may just be your last offer.

Got to be cruel to be kind

[iceman]

I have a feeling you are all worried that if Niki takes up the offer she will get to know TC's much better than they have been presented to her up to know...You are worried that she might then realise there is a different side to the Cyprob..

Niki,i have a feeling you have decided to take up the job..Good luck to you..If i were you i would not have mentioned here but hey...thats your choice,hope the negative comments on this thread do not affect your decision..

[denizaksulu]

If they have legal titles to their shop or the land is build on then it is ok. Just be sure they don't use this as a bait to make you do something different after. And be sure they pay in advance. If you have any problems you will not be able to sue them since they don't care about laws.

Sotos strikes again. Sotos s..OFF

Regards withheld.