Epsilon,
How Greek we are is beyond dispute and I am often surprised by people who try to invent new ethnicities to evade a non existent obstacle! The same goes for how Turkish the Turkish Cypriots are. The status is not the problem, at least for some of us.
I agree with you 100 per cent on the nature of a democratic state. What absorbs a lot of my thinking, like most Cypriots, is how to achieve such a democratic and European way of being yet give the Turkish Cypriots the security guarantees that they need at this point in time. It may be that in the future they will feel secure enough not to need guarantees in a fully democratic state. And all this without resorting to a solution that is partition in disguise and eventual take over of the whole island by Turkey.
When I read posts here and elsewhere I want to see how others have thought along the lines of balancing the desires of democracy with intercommunal security. So far there has been no proposal that satsifes all. And a somewhat funny thought comes to mind- a top management guy, Townsend, wrote how he held top level meetings in a conference room with no chairs. Having the "decision makers" standing while negotiating or presenting ideas sped up the process a lot, he said. Sometimes these simple things seem to have value! Reading this I recalled how Raud Denktash had very comfortable chairs in his office for his UN visitors!