denizaksulu wrote:LENA wrote:denizaksulu wrote:LENA wrote:The above that Zan posted (paluze and kiofterka as we call them) still exist. I ask my mum about Port but she do not recognize the name of what you are saying.
Thank you Lena, I love your mum. This IS what my granny called 'KEFTER' Almost the same pronounciation.
You make me happy. It was suggested by a poster that it was extinct. Where can I find your mother Lena. I want to kiss her hands.
Deniz
Why you want to kiss my mums hands???
Sorry to confuse you Lena mou. I know I am many years older than your mother. Kissing hand and placing the hand on your forehead is an old Turkic/ TC tradition. When the post relating to KEFTER came through I did not know any other way to show my pleasure. For all I know, your mother might even make the Kefter, and that is good enough for me.As she might have saved it(kefter) from extinction. Respect my dear. In reality, If your mother was younger than myself, it would not happen. Then I would give her a kiss on each cheek.
Besides that she has aan intelligent daughter lke yourself.
Regards
DA
Deniz,
My mum is a lot younger than you. She didnt save the kefter from extinction but my grandmother and aunt did that, and my aunt still does that. My mother knows how to do them but the thing is in Nicosia and with busy life is not easy thing.
During the visit to my aunt I brought back some good stuff to take with me in UK....trahana, tsamarella etc...
As for the matter of respect we kiss hand of elder....but that was a very old tradition the only hand we kiss now is priest's hands. The kiss to the forehead still exist as bless..not respect, from older to younger.
Now all those is more like cheek kisses.