aapapa wrote:{< quote, miltiades}
Eliko , it is much deeper than that. Firstly you have to understand and appreciate that all super powers , and Britain was one at the time , through out history have exploited and used other nations for their own interests , a historical fact applicable to every single world power that ever existed.
Remembering that I posted much earlier that as young man at the age of 12 to the age of 15 I was a sworn member of the Youth arm of EOKA called ANE , and to-date I do not regret my past association with this organization.
Throughout this period I never harboured any hatred for British troops who were only carrying out their duties as soldiers remembering that the same troops in 1953 carried out their duties , in a humanitarian fashion , in helping the survivors of the earthquake of September the 10th . I watched as they erected tents and distributed food to the villagers and sweets to the children. It was a British army woman who took me and my two brothers and one sister to the Limassol orphanage .
I consider my self not only a Brit but also a Cypriot , my children share the English as well as the Cypriot ethnicity .
I came to the UK , on my own at the age of 15 . This nation has given me a great deal , I have nor rejected my birth country , on the contrary living away has strenghtened my love for my natural birth country , I also see very clearly that the British have contributed a great deal to the economy of Cyprus and I challenge any one to prove otherwise. Lets imagine a future scenario. The Brits go home , property crashes , restaurants , hotels , bars shops go bust in the process. Yes I hear you say , the Russians will make up the shortfall !!! Or in your case Eliko the Arabs !!
Let me finally remind you that there are in the UK more than 250 thousand Cypriots , how dare you say to them that Britain is their enemy ?
This country , the UK , has been very good to those of us who were prepared to accept and respect the native culture and learn the language without a bloody interpreter .
LONG MAY THE BRITS INHABIT PAPHOS AND SUSTAIN PROSPERITY TO THE ENTIRE REGION.
Miltiades
You hit the nail on the head the UK has been good to those who were prepared to accept and respect the culture. Most Brits here in Paphos don't even make an effort to speak basic Greek. I have heard a local Englishman complain that the bells should not be allowed so early on a Sunday morning. I have been sworned at for daring to suggest that it was discraceful that a particular Irishman who has been living in Paphos for twelve years still does not speak Greek. The examples of the 'Little Britain' mindset are too many to list here. I also grew up in the UK and I believe I see in you what I see also in a lot of my relatives who live in the UK. I am afraid you have gone native. You recognise that you had to accept and respect the native culture but you don't seem to expect the same from your fellow Brits when they decide to live in Cyprus. One final word before I am accused of hating the British or the English people. My son in law is English and he comes from a terrific family. My argument is not with all things English. My argument is with the concept that because these people help the local economy, we owe it to them to prostitute our customs and beliefs and become more like them to survive. No Sir, a thousand times No.[/quote]
Cant you not see the huge difference between us coming to the UK in order to make a living and improve our lives and the Brits coming to Cyprus ?? It is common sense man just use your loaf. Why should I , if I retire to Spain , did not have to work to survive learn to speak Spanish !!
We HAD to learn English because we HAD to work to make a living, and why should the Brits in Cyprus have to learn Greek or Turkish. I have been with my wife since November 22nd 1963 , She doesn't speak GREEK !! My son lives in the UK and Does not speak Greek , my daughter , married to a G/C lives in Cyprus and speaks fluent Greek .The moral of the story is that if You have to you have to if you o not have to you dont have to.The Brits in Cyprus are on the whole very civilized and respectful of the local environment.
As for me going "native " , when in Rome do as the Romans do , I have retained my identity but at the same time I have taken into my heart my English blood relatives , my two children , my nephews my daughter in law and my beloved wife. What is wrong with that !