Alexandros; I agree with you that within both communities there are political leaders, politicians, chairmen of several NGOs and people that intentionally or unintentionally use such hurtful expressions which can be percepted as an insult and/or potential threat. Such behaviours indeed cause emotional violence, crisis of confidence and thus disorder of the unity.
Can you tell me how many articles written about this issue that point out this fatal mistake? So what percentage of people really care about it notwithstanding the violence emotionally it creates.
Is there any movers and shakers that warn about the detrimental effects and consequences of such insulting, provoking expressions? One might argue that this is the reality of life everywhere in the world. Well, however if there's no effective reaction against such disturbing and irritating expressions; physically uniting Cyprus woouldn't be adequate to unite her people.
The concequences of this fatal mistakes already are obviously seen. Majority of Cypriots have already been encouraged to focus upon their pecuniary interests. I'm afraid, in the end; this way of running of the events will lead us to "eat" each other to satisfy our pecuniary interests.