Yes,i can blame you! Tc's can't decide to go and live their house in south now if anyone is living in it ! You are saying "We can give you another house from Tc properites." but you are not letting me to live in MY property!
You (or your parents) didn't have to leave in 1974. If you didn't leave you would live in your property today without any problems
Of course your property belongs to you and nothing can change this.
But the current situation with TC that live to the north is more complicated than that. (TC that live abroad and never lived under the illigal regime are a different story and there should't be any problems for them).
As a citizen you don't have only rights, you have responsibilities also. RC has laws, that you and the other TC that live to the north did not and continue not to respect.
After 30 years of beign an outlaw RC doesn't hold it against you and still tries to accomodate you as good as possible.
Now of course you can go to court and demand the 100% of your rights. But you should be willing to comply with the 100% of your responsibilities, like any other citizen, if you do that.
When a solution to Cyprus problem is found, then the refugees that unwillingly live in your property will go back to their home or receive compensation to buy a new home, you can return to your property and we can erase all "debts" from the past and start a new fresh beginning.