Rulla,
Just as well Donna and her husband are moving to Paphos and not the east side of the island then!
And, your comments are just one of the reasons why most people decide to rent property rather than buy straight away these days. At least it gives them the opportunity to suss out their "friendly" neighbours!
What attracted most of us ex-pats to Cyprus initially was the friendly Cypriot people we used to meet when we came on holiday
Luckily for us, we live in a nice area with friendly Cypriot neighbours all around us! Personally, we didn't want to end up in an ex-pat filled location and so stayed clear of some of the more popular locations.
As for alarms - we don't need them as we have 2 large dogs, who incidentally are very friendly, but not everyone knows that