Bohemiantriumph wrote:I have only just joined the Cyprus Forum, and on wise advice I have been observing it for a couple of days before expressing an opinion. I shall be writing on this forum and identifying how I see myself as a citizen and a human both of which are germaine to the views I hold and to the issues for which this forum was created. However this is a quick reply to the exchanges above, which seem to be typical of many such exchanges.
On first impression I am deeply saddened by the partisanship, the bitterness, the lack of ability to "walk in another's shoes" and the strident attacks that seem to appear from time to time. I am 61 in about 10 days and I have observed "The Cyprus Problem" (from the UK where I was born) since there was just one BBC TV channel which was thought to be free and non-partisan by the British people at the time. Having been recently dragged kicking and screaming into the Iraq war by a government that shames the terms socialism, democracy and accountability a large minority, perhaps even a small majority of the British people are no longer so naive.
I have seen the decay of British Imperialism and Colonialism, the differing accounts of various important events by the BBC then as opposed to the accounts of family members and other direct connections who reported events much more directly. I have been aware since being myself of a single figure age that the media do not always know, let alone tell the truth, and of course the truth-index varies according to who is doing what to whom, how much the government or other interests (such as multinational corporations) have influence within the particular newspaper or TV newsrooms, the political complexions and agendas of the owners of those media etc.
To witness the results of propaganda and prejudice rather than reason, heart, humanity and a desire for universal happiness has saddened me as I ripen into the best years of my life. My only enemies are dominance, hatred, ignorance, greed, misinformation and manipulation, not people.
Therefore I ask all those who participate in this forum, the purpose for which must be dialogue rather than diatribe by its very existance, to consider the analogy of a neo-imperialist USA government and the terrible havoc they are wreaking in the world, whose people no longer support them (by 70%) over, for example, Iraq, an analogy which I am daring to draw in relation to how Cyprus has been continually let down by US and UK dominated politics, before so-called independence, during the years before 1974 and since the events of that and subsequent years. My father lived in a village that was part Greek in culture, population and institutions and part Turkish. There was a Mosque and a Church. The Doctor was Greek, the Policeman Turkish. And nobody gave a damn. Everybody gossipped at the fountain and both Greek-and-Turkish Cypriots played Tavli in the Kafenio (backgammon in the Caf).
Please let us stop squabbling amongst ourselves (as many of us who live in the UK, especially North London, do not) and remember that it was big country politics that destroyed the integrity of Cyprus, not the people, whatever their ethnic origin.
If you have prejudices, get over them and grow up. We are all the same species, whatever you believe. It happens to be my belief that the future DOES belong to the people of the world, not the multi-nationals, politicians and manipulators. They are all crooks. Politics MEANS deception and prevarication, propaganda and manipulation. But people can, with a will to be the best they can be for themselves and their own self-responsibility, and for the future of their offspring, agree to overcome any obstacles to living harmoniously with each other. Such an attitude simplifies everything, and the prophets of both sides have taught the same thing, whether you follow them or not.
I may no doubt be attacked as an idealist and a fool. If this is so I am happy to have lived so far in that condition and will be happy to die even further along the path of self-realisation that has supported my so-called idealism/foolishness all these years.
Welcome to the forum friend and fellow human. I hope you will post for a long time to come and happy birthday in ten days time.
Your idealism is admirable even if impractical and long may you live within your inner peace, but outer peace seems to be much harder to attain.