The point is to get back to the negotiation table and try to understand each other. In order to do that we need to disengage from the Cypriots plight of serving the "motherlands" interests first.
I myself belive that the CyProb can only be solved with some sort of long awaited "revolution" in the sense that GCs and TCs sit together, decide a solution and leave the "motherlands" out of the equation and just go to the UN and announce their agreement. Utopia? Well maybe.
The current policies by both sides do not help at the moment, on th eone side you have TP who is a stubborn politician of the 60's and on the other side you have Talat who managed to hook himself on Turkey by following the same deadlock policy of "direct trade" and back door recognistion.
I can see your point eskimwos, and it is very refreshing to see some positive thinking. But my problem is, as with many other posts in this forum, our GC friends have a tendency to base their arguments on assumptions and not facts. OK so mutual mistrust can be one of the reasons, but I sincerely hope common sense will prevail and GCs might just see the error of their thinking.
Let me expand on this and it might help you understand the position better:
1. What interest of Turkey is Cyprus serving? With million soldiers and a very powerful airforce and navy, are they scared of a tiny nation like Cyprus so that they need protection using TCs?
Forget about it serving Turkey's interests, Cyprus had in the past cost Turkey's economy a lot, and is still a major obstacle with regards to becoming an EU member. Maintaining an overseas force of 40,000 is also an expensive exercise. Turkish soldiers in Cyprus do not get free food, the army pays for food from local suppliers. Not to mention regular transportation concerning maintenance and exchange of men and equipment on the island.
2. You keep referring to things like direct trade leading to backdoor recognition, or GCs knowing very well that once direct trade starts TCs will never want a solution. On what grounds?
Can you tell us what has made you come to a conclusion like that? What indications are there that the TCs will never want to mix with their counterparts in the rest of the island once their economy gets better?
3. There is a wrong perception of the TCs due to bad propaganda in the South. They are very friendly fun loving people, very hospitable, and make you laugh if you were to make them smile. Yes, of course there is bad propaganda in the North as well - but the great majority of the TCs no longer take any notice of such smear tactics and are perfectly aware of the sources. They are also very well informed of the current politics and can make their own minds up. I dear say TCs are better informed because due to current economic embargoes, most of the TCs have no choice but spent a decade or two of their lives abroad before returning home - in the process learning to look at the issues from an outsiders perspective rather than what they had been told at school.
4. In my second or third post to this forum, I also suggested a cultural and social revolution for the settlers of this island to live together in peace under one citizenship. Two federal states with own policing and social services under Republic of Cyprus for at least a decade or two, with a common religious and educational policy.
The education should be stripped of all anti-Greek, anti-Turkish propaganda and concentrate on the history of the island from bronze age to this day. Preferably encouraging a critical and honest view of all the losses suffered by both TCs and GCs during wars, and why instead we should respect and learn to love each other as the good people of the same island.
The religious establishments must be forbidden by law to perpetuate any ethnic hatred. Membership of and any support for any para-military group or anything that resembles supporting a terrorist activity of any kind should be outlawed - punishable by life imprisonment! Social mixing of both sides should be actively encouraged, as well as joint participation in foreign representation of Cyprus in all areas of sports, arts, or culture.
If all the above can be done, so the Cyprus will become one. But do not expect miracles when the Orthodox church preaches hatred for the Turk, successive governments support PKK terrorist members in the South, children at school are taught to believe Cyprus problem started in 1974 and everything was Greek before then, EOKA-B symphatizers are abundantly in existence (allegedly they include current RoC president), TCs are prevented from participating in any form of international sports or cultural activities, and finally everything possible is being done to keep the sufferings of an economic embargo prevail.
Read the above carefully, and tell me from a TCs perspective why there is growing mistrust at this time, by even the most active preachers of a united island - Mr Talat and many members of his supporting party CTP. After crossing over to South and seeing true state of affairs, they have changed most of their original beliefs - the same is also true for many people who supported the left or had socialist ideas.