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Postby LENA » Wed May 23, 2007 10:28 pm

I have a question to all forums. I really wonder why this forum changes people through the time.

I notice that some people have changed since I join the forum and I am not an old member. Why in so short time people have changed their attitude?
I am not taking my self out from those people but I believe that some of the changes made me better not worst. But some other people changed in a bad way or they left the forum. Why? Is it my opinion only or other member believe the same as me?
I will write down some examples . . .Gavcar left from this forum, Pete_D left this forum, Free_Cyprus left the forum, BOF left the forum and lots of other members that I don’t recall now. Humanist has changed and he is more aggressive, Zan is always moody, he used to make us laugh… VP use to use more arguments and less insults now is the opposite, T_C use to be more fair for the GC and TC…now he is more in favour of the TC, I remember when he said that he doesn’t believe what he hear from some people because they are fanatics and nationalist so they will say anything. Now he is turn to be one of those people that didn’t listen. Guys and girls, I know that this is a forum and we will have our disagreements and our agreements but can we discuss what we have to say in more polite way? Try to see things on the others side. Try to use arguments and not insults. Try to see life with the funny way. Drink more alcohol if you have to like VW is doing… thank God VW is still here! We need him to stay and make us laugh. Thank you VW for that. Even Karma that used to accompany VW in this job left the forum.

I know that if we try we might bring her back. She loves drama so lets make this thread look more dramatic and I am sure she will come back!!!

So I am the first one that I will say to Karma come back …

Here is a song for you for you Karma…in 90s version
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3_qn9mKQ96Q

and in more pop version….
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lgi3_zYPNL8

I could find more but then they will call me odd and weird…:wink:

And a poem!!!!

PLEASE COME BACK
By Ryhll Garcia
I crave for thee so badly
Thy absence hast made life dreary
I long to feel thy arms enfold me
Thou whose soft words caress me gently
Oh why hast thou left me lonely?
When all I ever needed was to have thee
My life, my love why did you go away?
I miss thee so much; it aches
I need thee, oh please come back!

Karma is it enough drama for you my dear???

Ok a bit more??? PLEEEEEEEASE!!!

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But dont expect more than that...i dont beg!! :lol:

SO...I know you are out there....what do you say? :wink: :?: :?:
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Postby Niki » Wed May 23, 2007 11:27 pm

Lena

Many people take this forum too seriously. In my life I have many serious issues and when I go on the forum it is a way to relax and laugh. I am sure VW does the same. I am not pepared to vent my anger and frustrations so maybe I come across as not serious and shallow - good!

If karma wants to not get involved then let that happen. Please don't plead for her to come back....That is nonsense. She made her decision and took this forum too seriously - more fool her.

Lets just have the occasional joke and bit of escapism, don't get trapped into changing yourself which has become apparent through this plea. You are a great girl Lena, go with the flow, don't worry about it. Things in life evolve and change. karma wasn't actually a member for very long but she was prolific when she was here. There will be another karma.

Things move on. Let it happen!
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Postby THE HIGHLANDER » Wed May 23, 2007 11:45 pm

Everyone gets fed up after a while and spends less and less time on the forum,like me due to work commitments i just dont have the time nowadays,and to be honest some of the topics are absolute crap and dont interest me anymore plus insults and bickering amoungst members,it used to be a friendly helpfull forum,i can remember a year ago when i first joined and how friendly and helpfull everybody was and it was most appreciated and i thank the loyal members that answered my many questions and queries i put forward on Cyprus,

regard's Brian.
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Postby zan » Wed May 23, 2007 11:51 pm

There is a time to play and then a time for being serious. It seems that more time is needed for being serious since the attack on VP by a well organised gang that did not allow me time to play. I have not lost my sense of humour but with recent events people do not see me as much of a clown any more and when I make jokes they do not know if I am being serious or not. I cannot explain every joke twice so I do not bother. I do not blame people for being cautious because of the way things have gone. Look what happened about the joke on the Adana. How could I carry that on. It seems that I have killed a few threads and as I do not wish to spoil other peoples fun I have felt it right to keepout of the way. I work from the heart and do not want to taint every one with the Cyprob. As I said, I do not blame antone for fealing the way I do...Sometimes shit happens.





Now....You asked if I had a mustache...........What do you think.


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Postby dinos » Thu May 24, 2007 12:16 am

THE HIGHLANDER wrote:Everyone gets fed up after a while and spends less and less time on the forum,like me due to work commitments i just dont have the time nowadays,and to be honest some of the topics are absolute crap and dont interest me anymore plus insults and bickering amoungst members,it used to be a friendly helpfull forum,i can remember a year ago when i first joined and how friendly and helpfull everybody was and it was most appreciated and i thank the loyal members that answered my many questions and queries i put forward on Cyprus,

regard's Brian.


Highlander! I was gonna ask where you've been. Hope you're well...
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Postby LENA » Thu May 24, 2007 12:22 am

Niki wrote:Lena

Many people take this forum too seriously. In my life I have many serious issues and when I go on the forum it is a way to relax and laugh. I am sure VW does the same. I am not pepared to vent my anger and frustrations so maybe I come across as not serious and shallow - good!

If karma wants to not get involved then let that happen. Please don't plead for her to come back....That is nonsense. She made her decision and took this forum too seriously - more fool her.

Lets just have the occasional joke and bit of escapism, don't get trapped into changing yourself which has become apparent through this plea. You are a great girl Lena, go with the flow, don't worry about it. Things in life evolve and change. karma wasn't actually a member for very long but she was prolific when she was here. There will be another karma.

Things move on. Let it happen!


Niki...I will be honest with you ... Karma forced me to post for her :lol: :lol:

I know Niki...my point was not to beg Karma to come back...which i would loved to but make people realise that this forum is like you said for our free time to relax...and not to cause us breathing problems....people really change here...and i am not even an old member to know more.

Thank you for your compliments Niki, I hope you are not in love with me...:lol: Kidding...
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Postby LENA » Thu May 24, 2007 12:25 am

THE HIGHLANDER wrote:Everyone gets fed up after a while and spends less and less time on the forum,like me due to work commitments i just dont have the time nowadays,and to be honest some of the topics are absolute crap and dont interest me anymore plus insults and bickering amoungst members,it used to be a friendly helpfull forum,i can remember a year ago when i first joined and how friendly and helpfull everybody was and it was most appreciated and i thank the loyal members that answered my many questions and queries i put forward on Cyprus,

regard's Brian.


Brain, i agree with you, thats why i open this thread...well i joined for the same reasons...and i notice what you said lately...some times i am part of those thread too... :oops: :oops: :oops: ....but i got my self being addicted here...anyway...taking some breaks from here i notice that help you a lot. Hope everyone do that for a while...
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Postby dinos » Thu May 24, 2007 12:30 am

LENA wrote:
Niki wrote:Lena

Many people take this forum too seriously. In my life I have many serious issues and when I go on the forum it is a way to relax and laugh. I am sure VW does the same. I am not pepared to vent my anger and frustrations so maybe I come across as not serious and shallow - good!

If karma wants to not get involved then let that happen. Please don't plead for her to come back....That is nonsense. She made her decision and took this forum too seriously - more fool her.

Lets just have the occasional joke and bit of escapism, don't get trapped into changing yourself which has become apparent through this plea. You are a great girl Lena, go with the flow, don't worry about it. Things in life evolve and change. karma wasn't actually a member for very long but she was prolific when she was here. There will be another karma.

Things move on. Let it happen!


Niki...I will be honest with you ... Karma forced me to post for her :lol: :lol:

I know Niki...my point was not to beg Karma to come back...which i would loved to but make people realise that this forum is like you said for our free time to relax...and not to cause us breathing problems....people really change here...and i am not even an old member to know more.

Thank you for your compliments Niki, I hope you are not in love with me...:lol: Kidding...


Lena, at least you didn't post a link to Karma Chameleon.
Good on you for that! :lol: :lol:

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Postby villawagen » Thu May 24, 2007 12:41 am

as this is a forum for people who have a link with Cyprus, the cyprus problem becomes an important part of it, as it is a real problem that exists and is not going to go away!!!! the subject has to be discussed and thrashed out, but that does not mean that cannot have a good time living the life in Cyprus :wink:

i like the good things in Cyprus !!!!! like the cheap carlsberg or keo, the beach parties, i like buying small pigs to cook on big barbeque's on the beach for the big camp out at polis this weekend :D i like having a laugh with Brits, cypriots,poles, ruskies, sri lankans, philipinos and anyone else that wants to join me for a laugh and a beer and general chill out in the sun :D
this island is amazing if you accept the way things are and enjoy it for what it is !!!!!!
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Postby LENA » Thu May 24, 2007 12:41 am

zan wrote:There is a time to play and then a time for being serious. It seems that more time is needed for being serious since the attack on VP by a well organised gang that did not allow me time to play. I have not lost my sense of humour but with recent events people do not see me as much of a clown any more and when I make jokes they do not know if I am being serious or not. I cannot explain every joke twice so I do not bother. I do not blame people for being cautious because of the way things have gone. Look what happened about the joke on the Adana. How could I carry that on. It seems that I have killed a few threads and as I do not wish to spoil other peoples fun I have felt it right to keepout of the way. I work from the heart and do not want to taint every one with the Cyprob. As I said, I do not blame antone for fealing the way I do...Sometimes shit happens.





Now....You asked if I had a mustache...........What do you think.


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Glad to have you back Zan....really...you are so sweet even with that horrible moustache....

Your wife probably has stop using lip crayon she probably has red lips all the time!

By the way...discussing about serious things doesnt mean that you have to lose temporary your sense of humour!!
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