LENA
VP, thank you for your kind words for being woman with pride and emotions, but also in this post, you are claiming that I don’t have contact with reality. I would like to inform you that I might be a big dreamer and optimist up to stupidity but I ensure you that I know what is going on around me.
I hope so but you still do not appear to understand our fears and concerns.
TC and GC are not lovers as I told you at the very first moment. They are brothers and sisters from the same mother, from Cyprus, either you want to accept it or not.
But I keep on with your story just to prove you that things are not like that even if I try to see thing the way you see them
Then the brother would have raped his sister which is even worse. You have your version of the story as you see it due to the past and I have mine obviously my woundds are deepers or you are trying to dilute my version in order to provide more excuses for your actions.
You told me that he asked from her to damp her child (TRNC-which is what Kikapu said that it is since came out of a marriage and you came afterwards to give the explanation for his children). Anyway, he didn’t tell her to damp her child but bring the 2 children together and raised them as one in one family…and not one being raised in the neighbour’s house. And the true story here is that the husband want his wife back but not for sex…but their baby, RoC, is hurt from her attitude, he doesn’t trust her that much from her past. Don’t forget that she damped her baby and she considered him as dead. Also he is hurt because she raised a second child and she shows to that child so much affection that he doesn’t believe that he actually wants him as well.
In any reunion between the husband and wife there will no longer be "RoC" or TRNC they will be renamed North and South States. The husband is the one who refused the last chance to get together not the wife as he felt the conditions were not fair which created even more mistrust.
VP, you are talking about those 11 years but you never mention about the real rapes…and I am not talking about the story I am talking about reality. You want me to talk about reality…VP do you know how many women died during the war because of the pains from animals that raped them? Do you know how many abortions have been made during those years? For us is really a big sin the abortion…and those years people were more religious than now. Do you know how is like to feel insite you some one who don’t want and someone that killed another person in frond of your eyes? Do you know how is like you wish you was dead that moment instead of being there? Do you know how much pain can cause to feel the animal that killed your father or husband or child or parent in frond of your eyes….hit you and rape you? Do you want to talk about women’s feelings that had been through a rape? Do you know how many virgin girls have been raped?
Lena the real rapes are of course inhumane and regretable I wish I could turn the clock back and undo those grotesque acts but unfortunately I cant, the TCs are not proud of these facts and we are very sorry they occured.
As you to understand how rape mentally effects those who have suffered this vile act then you can easily appreciate the wifes trauma of 11 years or repeated rape, isolation and abuse, the scratches bits and tantrums were in deed a direct reaction to the rape and sale of the baby to Mr Greece.
During those years….lots of GCs killed TC…I do not deny that…and I am not proud for that either. I know also that they didn’t kill only TC but GC as well. But VP…do you deny the fact that TC killed GC? Do you want me to believe that you suffer so much and you haven’t done anything? The fact that GC wanted ENOSIS upset the TC…I am not blaming them but they wanted revenge…am I wrong? VP…do you have any contact with reality or do you live in your lovely “TRNC” dream world?
No I do not deny that TCs killed GCs this is a fact, but when faced with the Enosis dream and possible anniahaltion the only this you can do is fight back as your philosphy of turning the other cheeks runs the risk of having your life turned upside down and putting your life at risk.
Revenge or Defence? you are wrong for us it was self defence and countering the enosis madness.
You talk about sex with the neighbour with so much passion and so much love…well I am sorry for that …but I will agree with Kikapu…are you having orgasm by the “TRNC”?
This issue makes many GCs very uncomfortable and you seem to be showing the same symptoms, our realtions with the neightbour have always been good, this is something she never had with her husband for very long as he was always flirting with Mr Greece who wanted a baby.
Please refrain from mentioning that persons name in your posts, I do not see you stepping in to correct his usage of insults and abuse, confirms what I said before you have acted very one sided in that issue. I have toned my posts right down yet this allows some idiots free rage to hurl their abuse and scarcatic crap without hinderence.
As for why I can not give you an answer…no is not that no woman would return to her rapist and have sexual relationship…but I didn’t want to comment because even if I don’t approve the rape in any way….I have a very close family member who has been though that…that’s why I didn’t want to comment…because she went back to him and they had a child after that…so if you don’t know you better close your mouth. Well apart from upset those who want to upset you, closing your mouth is also wise when you don’t know the situation!
She s a very very brave and courageous person as 99% of woman could never let their rapist back into their bed let alone have a child from a rapist, that includes the wife in our story she will never let him near her sexually and will never share the same house, no way.
I am so sorry about your views!
