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Postby LENA » Sun May 27, 2007 9:31 am

Kikapu wrote:I'm not going to translate what the word "GAVUR" means, as the way is written in the dictionary, since I don't even have one, and since all of you have pretty much have given your versions of the meaning of the word, which are more or less the same. But what you have not given, is this.!

I have heard of this word ever since childhood, and after we were released as "prisoners" in late 1963 and were forced to live in my uncle's carpenter shop's stock room with my Grandmother, in Nicosia. My Grandmother would curse the "GAVURS" for what they have done to us. When ever she used that word, her whole facial expression would change along with her body language. She would use her hands, as if to make believe she would want to "slap" that word, or make a small fist and shake it, just above the wrist, as to emphasise that word. I have since then, noticed other peoples reactions for the last 40 + years, when ever the word "GAVUR" is used, and the interpretation I get is, that it is said in a very hateful way, very unpleasant way, very disapproval way, very negative way, very distrustful way, very insulting way. So when our friend mrfromng used the word "GAVUR" couple of times in the same sentence, he was not just saying the word "Greek or Greek Cypriots", but much much more than that.


I guess the real meaning doesnt matter since people use that word in the way you describe Kikapu! :(
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Postby miltiades » Sun May 27, 2007 10:14 am

As one who does not believe in the existence of a creator therefore considers all religions to be false and judges the various religions by their respective acts regardless of denominations the word gavur , because of its religious connotations , is used in a derogatory way to describe those that are unworthy of esteem. Just as Kikapu says , that as a child , he heard the word used many times as an inslut to the G/Cs let me assure him that the G/Cs also used a number of derogatory insulting words to describe the T/Cs. In the late 50s during the EOKA period and the use by the British of the T/Cs as special policemen , and the intercommunal fighting that ensued , common insult used to describe the T/Cs was the word " vromotourtchi " meaning filthy Turks.

That description was widely used and I'm certain that many are still prone to the usage of this word in describing their fellow Cypriots. Such a shame , because they have not met wonderful T/Cs as I and many others have met such as my oldest T/C mate Tourgout , Ibrahim , Metin and of course my dear friends that I absolutely adore and respect Birkibrisly , Kikapu , mrfromng and Ahmet who was introduced to me by mrfromng and I'm grateful for this introduction.

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Postby miltiades » Sun May 27, 2007 10:19 am

I left out Alton who will also be in Cyprus next week when Im there and hopefully he will come to my nephiews ' wedding in Limassol on Saturday the 2nd June.
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Postby Kikapu » Sun May 27, 2007 10:58 am

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You just can't let it go can you Pinocchio! :roll: Just because you wrote the words "You can't handle the truth", a line from a film that has been used to death does not mean that it is true no matter how many times you repeat it. :roll:

You still do not understand the fact that even if your cousins’ cat had said what you say her husband said it would not make a blind bit of difference to your summing up. You said that greed made him say what he did but in the same breath you tell him that his property in the south is worth much more. Where is the greed in that. Most sensible people would think that there is something wrong here. Why would he say that when I have just told him this. Could it be that he sees no solution. Could it be that after the Annan Plan people in the North have had enough. Could it be that he really has lost faith in the GCs ever giving a little for the sake of peace. Could it be that he has spent most of his adult life trying to make ends meet and now that he has got a chance to make a few pounds and sees no end to the Cyprob, he now just wants to get on and look after his family. Could it be that he actually holds a bit of a grudge against the GCs.
No, what you do, in your haste to make your TC hating point is to brand him a devil. Greed is what drives him. He only wants what is Greek and has no intention of a resolution. Well if I was he and I heard you talking like that then I would tell you to go fuck yourself. You come and live with the isolations for 30 years and then just as you were hoping that the island was at last going to be unified the GCs vote OXI and you look another 30 years in the face and you have a family to feed. Then along comes a prat like you and shouts and screams at him and calls him a cheat and a thief and telling him he should have let the embargoes do its job. Well fuck you. Whilst you were cruising around the world in your friends boat and having a wonderful time I was wondering where the next job was going to come from. My brother in-laws brother works as long as he could keep his truck on the road. When the money ran out for the repairs he now works digging the roads at the age of 52. So fuck you.


What you can't see that just giving up and walking back into the "RoC" will give these people nothing but another kick in the nuts. The one thing that some of those people have left is the security of living with other TCs and their pride. You want them to give both up so that you can say we are all Cypriots. Well once he has finished telling you what he thinks then you can get a fuck you from me too!


Zan,

That's the most "Fuck You's" I have gotten in any one post...4 times. One more and I would have been really pissed. :lol:

But I'm not mad at you Zan, because you said it from your heart and deep down feelings, which I can respect. It is obvious, that the "husband" still bothering you, and the brief explanation I have given you before, does not seem to sit well with you, so let me expand on it, then perhaps you will get a better picture of the whole situation. I will only talk in "vague" terms, so not to "expose" him.

The land and the house he showed me in the RoC does not belong to him, per say, it belongs to his parents. But of course he will inherit equal shares when the time comes with his siblings. When I said that the land in the RoC is worth more than the land in the "TRNC", is true. But the whole of land in the RoC does not all belong to him, where as all the land in the "TRNC" does belong to him, which is 10 times more land, than all the land they have in the RoC. So when ever he inherits his share, it will be only a fraction the land size, what he has bought and owns in the "TRNC", all being GC land. So with Partitions and a recognised state of the "TRNC", he can afford to lose his 1 or 2 Donüms of land in the RoC, because he has much more in the "TRNC" which he paid very little for. So aside from all the other factors of the political situation, he stands to gain a considerable wealth from a Partition. I wonder how many others are in the same situation.?

There's also one more thing I need to interject here, and this was not part of my discussion with him, but my own interpretations. If we had a solution, and did return back to his village, he would be the owner of a 1 or 2 Donüms of land, as his share. Even though it would be worth quite a bit, it would not be the same as owning land in the "TRNC", which would be 50-100 times more. This amount of land brings a feeling of prestige that puts him amongst the "privileged and elite", than your average TC. He would be seen as a wealthy man, whether it is the reality or not, but the perception is there, whether you like it or not, even if the lands value is not as much now, as the value in the RoC. But in time, it will be worth a lot of money, if Partition is obtained, so please, do not paint the picture of a desperate scenarios for them. They have everything they want and need.

As far as me sailing around the world comment, well, it was only half way, and it was a joint ownership of the boat with a friend at the time, but I did buy him out few years later. So you want to attach a quilt on me, while our people were in "dire situation" in Cyprus. Let examine those "dire" situations for a moment Zan, because I have lived through dire situation back in 1963-64, where I had to go and get food and things to wear, handed out by the UN, using our Rationing Card. I would go there bare feet, so to get pair of the cheapest plimsolls (tennis shoes), so to wear something. I'm sure your parents went through the same situations back then, since I doubt you would remember very much yourself. Don't even want to talk about VP, who has never had such problems, living his first 30 years of his life in the UK, but want us to believe, that he has "learnt from the past".

So after Turkey intervened and then Invaded Cyprus, and all the TC's were now living in the North, with the support of Turkey, were people really hungry and did not have shelter, or have they been so desperate since then, or even during 1964 to 1974. Who's idea was it to keep the two sides isolated with the "Green Line" shut for 30 years.? When you talk about the "isolation and embargoes" on the TC's, what exactly are you talking about. All it means, is that the TC's cannot trade directly from the "TRNC" to the outside world, but does not stop them, by trading through Turkey, to the outside world. Do you think, the TC's would do much more business had it been direct trading? OK then, the "Green Line" is open, so why doesn't the TC's register their businesses in the RoC, and do direct trade with the outside world. Same would be for the Turkish Cyprus Airways. If it was registered in the RoC, then they would be able to fly non-stop from Ercan to London, so why not do that. The reason why the TC's do not do that, is not the direct trade or the "isolation" is the problem for the TC's, it is the goal of Recognition and Partition, so when you want to attack me of being insensitive to the plight of the TC's, the question you should be asking is, are the TC's using all their options, given to them.

But of course, the TC's are now in a mind set, that the Northern part of Cyprus, is their God given right to claim as theirs, and all the privileges that goes with it, as an independent and free Nation, then you wonder why the GC's are not willing to go along with this idea. As a Citizen of Cyprus, I too will not go along on this plan, because I do not want my country to be divided, but would be more than wiling to change the political structure to have a BBF Federation system, where the TC's are predominately are in the North, and the GC's in the South, but in a Country called Cyprus, where every one's rights and Freedoms are protected, including their land and property, along with their Human Rights and Dignity. A chance to rebuild central Nicosia for all Cypriots and a better future for all of us in a EU State. I'm I asking too much Zan, as a citizen of my Country, or is all this a GC Propaganda, because if this is what the Greek Cypriots are proposing, then I'll take this "propaganda" any time of the day and tell the Partitionist of the "TRNC" to Fuck Off.
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Postby Kikapu » Sun May 27, 2007 11:17 am

miltiades wrote:As one who does not believe in the existence of a creator therefore considers all religions to be false and judges the various religions by their respective acts regardless of denominations the word gavur , because of its religious connotations , is used in a derogatory way to describe those that are unworthy of esteem. Just as Kikapu says , that as a child , he heard the word used many times as an inslut to the G/Cs let me assure him that the G/Cs also used a number of derogatory insulting words to describe the T/Cs. In the late 50s during the EOKA period and the use by the British of the T/Cs as special policemen , and the intercommunal fighting that ensued , common insult used to describe the T/Cs was the word " vromotourtchi " meaning filthy Turks.

That description was widely used and I'm certain that many are still prone to the usage of this word in describing their fellow Cypriots. Such a shame , because they have not met wonderful T/Cs as I and many others have met such as my oldest T/C mate Tourgout , Ibrahim , Metin and of course my dear friends that I absolutely adore and respect Birkibrisly , Kikapu , mrfromng and Ahmet who was introduced to me by mrfromng and I'm grateful for this introduction.

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Miltiades,

As human race, I can tell you, that we STINK.!! We use words such as "NIGGER", towards a Black Person, as we use the word "GAVUR" meaning a Greek Speaking persons, or the word you mentioned "VROMOTOURTCHI" describing a Turkish Speaking persons. There are no shortage of Bigots and Racist people in this world. I'm sorry to say, that I would have a hard time associating with such people like mrfromng, even though he has invited me for a drink next time I'm in London. I thought I could meet with him but at this point in time, I do not have any desires what so ever. All I can say is, that you're are better person than I am, to ignore his Bigoted and Racist comment hurled towards others as well as towards Greek Speaking people. These are not just mere cuss words but Racist in it's true nature.
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Postby Viewpoint » Sun May 27, 2007 11:32 am

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Viewpoint wrote:Lena my dear friend I will politely bow out as although your English is good there are little fine points in my posts which make a hell of a difference you appear to either miss or misunderstand them, lets just say if your husband rapes and abuses you because of his size and you get help from a stronger person who helps you get away, would you go back to him although he has taken all the money from your joint account and just because he says has changed and that he loves you, clenching his fist?


VP, you are right, our English is good, mine is not perfect but at least ok...so we can communicate but not understand each other. I said I have scars but I will not sit and look my scars I will move onI did NOT say I will go back to him, and I will not generalise the fact that he was …what he was…I will not have to see every single man like him. So your advice is that I should stay at the back, looking for the mistakes and the pain and the grief and the loss? No VP, I want to move on from the past, I don’t want to stick to something that causes me so much pain. I know I can have a better future than my past. I am not going to stay stuck in the period 1963-1974. I want to move on even if the past is there with the marks, with the scars being visible for the rest of my life. I will not bring all the dead people back or correct the mistakes. What I have to do is to keep going to move on and create a better future.

Now, as for your new example, my husband rapes me and abuses me because of his size and I get help from stronger person to get away. He gets my money and he tells me after a while that he change, he loves me but he is clenching his fist. Well, first of all, if you see the TC as the female and the GC as the male and Turkey as the stronger person…your story has lots of mistakes. First, Turkey didn’t came to Cyprus to help you…don’t tell me b* because if it was only for help they should have left years ago…and they shouldn’t treat you and us, as we belong to them. So that third stronger person is raping the woman and the man in a daily base. But it seems to me that the woman is a bit masochistic or a slut…since she didn’t like what happened with her husband but she enjoy the other block…Second of all the husband didn’t take her money but he had to pay for the hospital that the new block send him, he had to buy a new house because the block through him out of the house and he had to find a job in new area that he had to live since then. He was so pissed of about the whole issue with the new block and his wife…because that bloke forced him to bow and (*) him every day since then and the wife believed that the new bloke was a hero and she kept opening her legs (sorry about my language but I am straight)… but after years he thought that they had 2 babies together that they had to give them a good example and better future so he thought that he had to offer her to leave together…no sexual relationships…just share the same house, bills, responsibilities etc…

But TC and GC are not husband and wife…are brothers …and for me there is no money matter in the middle…Cyprus is…TC and GC are children of Cyprus…and Greece and Turkey are the old cousins and UK and USA are the uncle and the aunt…so make up a new scenario with the real story!!

But please next time don’t involve my personal life in it…it start sound like a drama here…and for God sake I am not married, nobody rape me THANK GOD!! and my personal life has nothing to do with the Cyprus problem :lol: :lol:


In response to your first paragraph you really answer my question you confirm you want to move on and create a better life without your ex bf...and that you would not go back to him...thats what we are trying to do the only difference is our ex bf/husband will not let us go and build a better future for ourselves he keeps trying to stop my improving my life and moving on.

She asked for her friends help in her moment of crisis and with the fear of being murdered...her husband and been drinking with his best friend they started to fight..saying that he would rape her after beating up his best friend, so her friend really saved her life and gave her protection he showed her compassion and supported financially and emotionally which she had not been used to before as he ex had not provided for her keeping her locked in a shed in the garden while he was eating and drinking with ours. Time passed by the danger didnt she was no longer beaten or raped, she grew to love her friend with whom she has sex and a caring relationship which she never had with her ex.(do you understand the difference?) As for her friends treatment of the ex-husband all he does is allow him to work, play and prosper but not near his ex-wife in fear that he will rape and beat her again, you know the ex does not have a very good track record of showing love and affection towards her. As for the financial support dont you feel the wife should get alimony or do you think the husband shoudl get everything and the wife just a roof over her head and nothing else, she cannot even work or talk to her old friends as her ex stops others from getting close or helping his ex-wife not telling them of his bad treatment of her. All the ex husband has done is lose part of his wealth he lost 3 houses but still has 7 more, he buys his ex wife diamonds but out of guilt and to show off to others tricking them that he is a good husband.
As for the baby "RoC" that died in 1963 it had it heart ripped out by the father who keeps the dead body imbalmed in the attic and tells everyone that it out of necessity. Then he says come back you bitch and look after this baby clench his fist....what women would go back to an animal like that?

Im sorry if you feel that the above scenario has anything to do with that was not my intention. The content is very close to the Cyprus problem and even now you try to avert and dismiss understanding what I am saying. Just for a second accept that the above is right, what advise do you give the battered wife, say with the man who protects and shows yo nothing but affection or go back to the exhusband who claims he has changed and wants to send your friend away and get you on your own?
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Postby LENA » Sun May 27, 2007 11:50 am

VP, really...I will come back to you with a serious answer but really you have to stop reading novel book and watching to many love story and drama films. I had my breakfast one hour ago or so...but I have pains in my tummy because I was laughing so much reading your post. By the way, thank God I am ok now with the ex-bf thing or else I was going to kill you for reminding me him and causing me pain pain and grief...But I was not wrong about you...even if we disagree you are indeed very clever man...and the proof is your BIG imagination...I am not being sarcastic now, I have done research on that and is true...clever people have good imagination.
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Postby Kikapu » Sun May 27, 2007 11:53 am

Viewpoint wrote:
LENA wrote:
Viewpoint wrote:Lena my dear friend I will politely bow out as although your English is good there are little fine points in my posts which make a hell of a difference you appear to either miss or misunderstand them, lets just say if your husband rapes and abuses you because of his size and you get help from a stronger person who helps you get away, would you go back to him although he has taken all the money from your joint account and just because he says has changed and that he loves you, clenching his fist?


VP, you are right, our English is good, mine is not perfect but at least ok...so we can communicate but not understand each other. I said I have scars but I will not sit and look my scars I will move onI did NOT say I will go back to him, and I will not generalise the fact that he was …what he was…I will not have to see every single man like him. So your advice is that I should stay at the back, looking for the mistakes and the pain and the grief and the loss? No VP, I want to move on from the past, I don’t want to stick to something that causes me so much pain. I know I can have a better future than my past. I am not going to stay stuck in the period 1963-1974. I want to move on even if the past is there with the marks, with the scars being visible for the rest of my life. I will not bring all the dead people back or correct the mistakes. What I have to do is to keep going to move on and create a better future.

Now, as for your new example, my husband rapes me and abuses me because of his size and I get help from stronger person to get away. He gets my money and he tells me after a while that he change, he loves me but he is clenching his fist. Well, first of all, if you see the TC as the female and the GC as the male and Turkey as the stronger person…your story has lots of mistakes. First, Turkey didn’t came to Cyprus to help you…don’t tell me b* because if it was only for help they should have left years ago…and they shouldn’t treat you and us, as we belong to them. So that third stronger person is raping the woman and the man in a daily base. But it seems to me that the woman is a bit masochistic or a slut…since she didn’t like what happened with her husband but she enjoy the other block…Second of all the husband didn’t take her money but he had to pay for the hospital that the new block send him, he had to buy a new house because the block through him out of the house and he had to find a job in new area that he had to live since then. He was so pissed of about the whole issue with the new block and his wife…because that bloke forced him to bow and (*) him every day since then and the wife believed that the new bloke was a hero and she kept opening her legs (sorry about my language but I am straight)… but after years he thought that they had 2 babies together that they had to give them a good example and better future so he thought that he had to offer her to leave together…no sexual relationships…just share the same house, bills, responsibilities etc…

But TC and GC are not husband and wife…are brothers …and for me there is no money matter in the middle…Cyprus is…TC and GC are children of Cyprus…and Greece and Turkey are the old cousins and UK and USA are the uncle and the aunt…so make up a new scenario with the real story!!

But please next time don’t involve my personal life in it…it start sound like a drama here…and for God sake I am not married, nobody rape me THANK GOD!! and my personal life has nothing to do with the Cyprus problem :lol: :lol:


In response to your first paragraph you really answer my question you confirm you want to move on and create a better life without your ex bf...and that you would not go back to him...thats what we are trying to do the only difference is our ex bf/husband will not let us go and build a better future for ourselves he keeps trying to stop my improving my life and moving on.

She asked for her friends help in her moment of crisis and with the fear of being murdered...her husband and been drinking with his best friend they started to fight..saying that he would rape her after beating up his best friend, so her friend really saved her life and gave her protection he showed her compassion and supported financially and emotionally which she had not been used to before as he ex had not provided for her keeping her locked in a shed in the garden while he was eating and drinking with ours. Time passed by the danger didnt she was no longer beaten or raped, she grew to love her friend with whom she has sex and a caring relationship which she never had with her ex.(do you understand the difference?) As for her friends treatment of the ex-husband all he does is allow him to work, play and prosper but not near his ex-wife in fear that he will rape and beat her again, you know the ex does not have a very good track record of showing love and affection towards her. As for the financial support dont you feel the wife should get alimony or do you think the husband shoudl get everything and the wife just a roof over her head and nothing else, she cannot even work or talk to her old friends as her ex stops others from getting close or helping his ex-wife not telling them of his bad treatment of her. All the ex husband has done is lose part of his wealth he lost 3 houses but still has 7 more, he buys his ex wife diamonds but out of guilt and to show off to others tricking them that he is a good husband.
As for the baby "RoC" that died in 1963 it had it heart ripped out by the father who keeps the dead body imbalmed in the attic and tells everyone that it out of necessity. Then he says come back you bitch and look after this baby clench his fist....what women would go back to an animal like that?

Im sorry if you feel that the above scenario has anything to do with that was not my intention. The content is very close to the Cyprus problem and even now you try to avert and dismiss understanding what I am saying. Just for a second accept that the above is right, what advise do you give the battered wife, say with the man who protects and shows yo nothing but affection or go back to the exhusband who claims he has changed and wants to send your friend away and get you on your own?


Nice "Soap Opera" VP.

Now how about something with a little reality.!!

I have a post waiting to be written to you directly, so I hope to get it out to you today.
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Postby miltiades » Sun May 27, 2007 12:03 pm

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miltiades wrote:As one who does not believe in the existence of a creator therefore considers all religions to be false and judges the various religions by their respective acts regardless of denominations the word gavur , because of its religious connotations , is used in a derogatory way to describe those that are unworthy of esteem. Just as Kikapu says , that as a child , he heard the word used many times as an inslut to the G/Cs let me assure him that the G/Cs also used a number of derogatory insulting words to describe the T/Cs. In the late 50s during the EOKA period and the use by the British of the T/Cs as special policemen , and the intercommunal fighting that ensued , common insult used to describe the T/Cs was the word " vromotourtchi " meaning filthy Turks.

That description was widely used and I'm certain that many are still prone to the usage of this word in describing their fellow Cypriots. Such a shame , because they have not met wonderful T/Cs as I and many others have met such as my oldest T/C mate Tourgout , Ibrahim , Metin and of course my dear friends that I absolutely adore and respect Birkibrisly , Kikapu , mrfromng and Ahmet who was introduced to me by mrfromng and I'm grateful for this introduction.

No Cypriot is bad because he is a G/C or a T/C but because he is a rotten human.


Miltiades,

As human race, I can tell you, that we STINK.!! We use words such as "NIGGER", towards a Black Person, as we use the word "GAVUR" meaning a Greek Speaking persons, or the word you mentioned "VROMOTOURTCHI" describing a Turkish Speaking persons. There are no shortage of Bigots and Racist people in this world. I'm sorry to say, that I would have a hard time associating with such people like mrfromng, even though he has invited me for a drink next time I'm in London. I thought I could meet with him but at this point in time, I do not have any desires what so ever. All I can say is, that you're are better person than I am, to ignore his Bigoted and Racist comment hurled towards others as well as towards Greek Speaking people. These are not just mere cuss words but Racist in it's true nature.


Having met mrfromng and spoken to him on numerous occasions I have found him to be a civil and a caring person , being a Cypriot he is hot blooded like the rest of us , he has his views and I respect him for that. I do not for a minute consider the man who invited me to his daughter's birthday party to be a bigot or a racist , but a T/C who feels that his site is under siege and his reaction is one of defending rather than attacking. When you are next in London let the 3 of us meet and you will see as I did that this guy is genuine and most certainly not a bigot. I also disagree with views expressed and in fact when I post derogatory comments on the "TRNC" I become acutely aware that he might easily and justifiably find my comments offensive , but I take comfort in the knowledge that the guy is big enough and wise enough to know that my remarks are a by product of my ardent and unswerving support for a united Cyprus , just as you beleive , and not remarks borne out of malice towards my fellow T/Cs.
My total commitment to a united Cyprus has a tendency to occasionally offend those with differing views , I make no apologies for wanting my grand daughter to grow up with out the fear of conflict and I believe that a divided Cyprus will sooner or later erupt with dire consequences. I fear for the future of the young generations of Cypriots who will be substantialy damaged by incessant propaganda stirring up hatred , just as you see in VPs and Zans' postings , as well as Nikeforos and the late Tolis . Its for us older and I beleive wiser guys to spread the message of reconciliation and forgiveness , appreciate that you Kikapu and Bir faced difficult circumstances in the early 60s and had to run for your lives , but just as the greatest African ever , Nelson Mandela , you grew in stature and showed us that forgiveness and respect is better that harbouring grudges and regurgitating hateful memories whose only purpose is to feed the seeds of conflict .
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Postby Viewpoint » Sun May 27, 2007 12:21 pm

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My total commitment to a united Cyprus has a tendency to occasionally offend those with differing views , I make no apologies for wanting my grand daughter to grow up with out the fear of conflict and I believe that a divided Cyprus will sooner or later erupt with dire consequences.


Yes you do as I show respect for you viewpoint on unfication and only argue the pitfalls you shoudl show the same respect for those that believe that division is the best solution. I try to keep an open mind about unification and argue pros and cons all you do is attack and belittle the poster not the arguements.

Do you truly want to throw your grand-daughter into danger in a united Cyprus? The likelihood of fanatics from both sides having free range over the whole of Cyprus becuase they were not happy with paragraph 3 of chapter 72 is very high and I do not want to throw my children into such a situation without lots of safe guards. How will you console parents when a bomb goes off and we create another Israel/Palestine situation all because you wanted a united Cyprus when the experience of the last 33 years shows you that division guarantees a peaceful exsistence. 2 states where all Cypriots can go and live where they wish is imo the best way forward.
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