Viewpoint wrote:Lena my dear friend I will politely bow out as although your English is good there are little fine points in my posts which make a hell of a difference you appear to either miss or misunderstand them, lets just say if your husband rapes and abuses you because of his size and you get help from a stronger person who helps you get away, would you go back to him although he has taken all the money from your joint account and just because he says has changed and that he loves you, clenching his fist?
VP, you are right, our English is good, mine is not perfect but at least ok...so we can communicate but not understand each other. I said I have scars but I will not sit and look my scars I will move on…I did NOT say I will go back to him, and I will not generalise the fact that he was …what he was…I will not have to see every single man like him. So your advice is that I should stay at the back, looking for the mistakes and the pain and the grief and the loss? No VP, I want to move on from the past, I don’t want to stick to something that causes me so much pain. I know I can have a better future than my past. I am not going to stay stuck in the period 1963-1974. I want to move on even if the past is there with the marks, with the scars being visible for the rest of my life. I will not bring all the dead people back or correct the mistakes. What I have to do is to keep going to move on and create a better future.
Now, as for your new example, my husband rapes me and abuses me because of his size and I get help from stronger person to get away. He gets my money and he tells me after a while that he change, he loves me but he is clenching his fist. Well, first of all, if you see the TC as the female and the GC as the male and Turkey as the stronger person…your story has lots of mistakes. First, Turkey didn’t came to Cyprus to help you…don’t tell me b* because if it was only for help they should have left years ago…and they shouldn’t treat you and us, as we belong to them. So that third stronger person is raping the woman and the man in a daily base. But it seems to me that the woman is a bit masochistic or a slut…since she didn’t like what happened with her husband but she enjoy the other block…Second of all the husband didn’t take her money but he had to pay for the hospital that the new block send him, he had to buy a new house because the block through him out of the house and he had to find a job in new area that he had to live since then. He was so pissed of about the whole issue with the new block and his wife…because that bloke forced him to bow and (*) him every day since then and the wife believed that the new bloke was a hero and she kept opening her legs (sorry about my language but I am straight)… but after years he thought that they had 2 babies together that they had to give them a good example and better future so he thought that he had to offer her to leave together…no sexual relationships…just share the same house, bills, responsibilities etc…
But TC and GC are not husband and wife…are brothers …and for me there is no money matter in the middle…Cyprus is…TC and GC are children of Cyprus…and Greece and Turkey are the old cousins and UK and USA are the uncle and the aunt…so make up a new scenario with the real story!!
But please next time don’t involve my personal life in it…it start sound like a drama here…and for God sake I am not married, nobody rape me THANK GOD!! and my personal life has nothing to do with the Cyprus problem