Kikapu...Thanks for your moving story,and my special thanks for kissing the ground for me in Paphos...Not that I doubt it but it would be unreal to see a photo of that if someone took one.Not in the open forum obviously...
I couldn't help but cry when you mentioned the story of the old GC women and their heartache over their lost homes and land...My mother is 86 now and she hasn't seen her village in the South for over 40 years too.She says she doesn't want to go there,as she is afraid of dropping dead with grief...
You have certainly given me a lot to think about.As some here know I have not been home for 40 years too(not including my trips to the TRNC).
I now know that I have no other option but follow your example and exorcise some long-standing ghosts in my motherland...At the risk of being called Birkopoulos by VP and accused of being a GC imposter too...
Haram is indeed a religious concept...Meaning anything that is not sanctioned by the Koran...Its opposite is Halal (or Helal in Turkish).
It is an Arabic word.Haram applies to the worst kind of sins people can commit.Like incest,murder,theft etc...If one committs even one sin that is Haram he/she has no chance of ever going to heaven...
You have all been warned...
PS.No amount of "debriefing" by VP and Zan will diminish the effect of your story,dear Kikapu...I embrace you warmly and kiss your eyes (gozlerinden operim!!!) for having the courage not only to go through with this trip,but also for telling us your story in such clear and warm way...congratulations ,my fellow Cypriot...