I totally agree that the enosis aspiration was legitimate. At the same time I consider legitimate the efforts of the rest interested parties to avert this option.
The reason I said the aspiration of enosis was legitimate is because it is natural for Greek Cypriots to want union with a country to which they identify in all walks of life. What may come as natural however, is not necessarily right and this is an important axiom of philosophy. It would have been right to pursue our aspiration had we taken into account other factors that were necessary to put into the equation and concluded that the target could be achieved under the conditions that prevailed then. We failed to do so (again, the usual story) and eventually made enosis an unreachable dream, having first brought Turkey into the equation as an important player. Turkey did not become a player in 1969 or indeed in 1955 when EOKA started the armed struggle. It became a player a couple of years before when Makarios stubbornly insisted and twisted the arm of Greece to internationalise the Cyprus issue by taking it to the United Nations. When Greece capitulated to this demand, after resisting for three years, the writing was on the wall.
Then I am not sure I agree with your general statement that Turkey would step in independent of our actions. We need to rely on history, perhaps, to resolve this. I also rely on your insignia (motto) which I like a lot, and I see that bar the war of independence in 1821, all other Turko-Greek wars were started by us. I really cannot see how Turkey would have made her way into Cyprus. Inonu tried hard to prevent Makarios in 1962 from attempting to change the Constitution, despite the fact that certain Turkish hawks were seating on the wings, ready to pounce on our mistakes.
On the issue of nationalism I need to clear one thing. I condemn nationalism when it impeaches on the needs, fears, security and even complexes of other groups of people. It is this sick nationalism that I condemn and cannot excuse, for it was exactly this nationalism that has led us to this predicament.
Also, I need to clear out one more thing. I would never try to win my case by manipulating situations in order to achieve my targets (ie enosis). The honourable thing to do is to listen carefully to the other side and in a friendly and fraternal way to find solutions. This requires compromises from all sides and compromises is what our culture has never let us understand. It is very brave and commendable to be able to reach solutions through compromises. Thus, compromises, given that they are in our aims, can also be tapped through the proper and scientific analysis of all factors affecting our issue, whether they are geostrategic or others.