In my experience, [Greek] Cypriots seem to possess quite a strong racist attitude towards people of Black origin, and I have seen very, very few Black people in Cyprus. When I visited the homeland at Christmas, it was strange for me to be in fairly multicultural Nicosia, probably because it was so different to the other parts of Cyprus I had seen. I was quite surprised to see a tall Black man holding hands with a small Cypriot woman (both in their early twenties at the most) and my [English] aunt who has lived in Cyprus for 19 years says that was the first time she had ever seen such a union face-to-face (the only other time being a wedding photo displayed in the window of the shop where she has her photographs developed, which shocked her, too).
OK, don't get me wrong, I'm not trying to sound ignorant because I know there are always exceptions to the norm, but Black people in Cyprus have always been looked down on (I have no idea about how they are regarded by the Turkish Cypriots, but I can't imagine it being that different from the Greek Cypriots), so it does surprise me when I hear of these relationships (I mean, come on, English-based Cypriot families cause a stir when one of their members decides to marry an English person!). Usually, in a Cypriot-non-Cypriot relationship, it's female who is foreign, but somehow I still can't picture a Cypriot man making a go of things with a Black woman. Recently on RIK Sat (on my favourite programme, Biz/Emis), there was a Cypriot woman who must've been either in her late 50s or early 60s who discussed mixed marriages (her husband is Pakistani) and spoke of how her father used to debate things with her when she was a teenager which are hot in Europe today, and explained that her father strongly supported that people's religion, ethnic background, and skin colour didn't matter, as long as they were decent people (he stood by her own marriage when her community looked down upon it). I was quite surprised that a Greek Cypriot man of that era especially had such a forward mentality.
Anyway, what I'm getting at is what are your experiences with Blacks in Cyprus? What have your parents said (if anything) and commented? Do you know of any Black-Cypriot relationships/marriages and/or children? Do you have any acquaintances in this kind of situation and how was the relationship perceived? Do you know (of) any mixed race Black Cypriots? Any general comments welcome and appreciated. I would be particularly interested to see what Turkish Cypriots have to say on the matter.
You can include Sri Lankans, Filipinos, and Indians (although I have never come across an Indian living in Cyprus) and how they intermingle in Cypriot society, but I am more interested in sexual relationships between them and Cypriots and any possible resulting children.
Leon.