FC I understand your question and believe me it's not the first time I heard it. I don't know if you ever participated at those "toathmasters debates" at high schools. Basically 2 teams were given a controversial issue to defend and there were 3 speakers from each team.
Well if you haven't I tell you the arguments and language from each team were so harsh and loaded with so much sentiment that I was always getting the impression those students hated each other.
Imagine my schock when at one occassion I saw the students of two opposing teams having their coffees at a cafe nearby....
This is what happens here. We are just debating. In real life we wouldn't even exchange more than a few words. Basically not only I don't hate anyone in here but I feel like someone is missing when a person does not write for a while. True there are 1-2 persons I don't particularly like, but not because they are TCs. It's just that we are on different wavelengths. One of those I don't like seems to be a copy of my own brother.
NB. I know you consider yourself just A Cypriot, so I don't know how to ask you this question. Anyway I am rather confused after Lenas post, so what are your roots Turkish mother tonque or Greek mother tonque Cypriot?