Viewpoint wrote:askimwos wrote:Viewpoint wrote:Nicole22 wrote:I have been reading your threads and can't understand why we always need to blame each other for our ancestor's failings on BOTH SIDES! Why can't we just say, yes.........that was then and this is NOW, and we want a solution, we want to go home and bring up our children on Cyprus hilly lands. Why can't we just forget what happened? and look forward........wake up and smell the coffee. All this blame-game leds nowhere, and as the years pass, we play straight into the politicians and fat cat's hands. Doesn't anyone else see the logic of what I am trying to say?
Without learning our lessons from the past we cannot build a future together, thats the problem. Without a structure inplace that will ensure we do not repeat or have the opportunity to reapeat the mistakes of the past we cannot move forward and we will be stuck in status quo for a very long time to come. It is this structure that we have been unable to agree as GCs see TCs as just another minority like the Pakistanis in the UK and we see ourselves as partners just like the Serbians, Montenegros, Germans French and Italians of Switzerland where we have rights above those of just an average minority group. The trust factor is below zero as the politics from both sides has not cultivated anything positive even the opening of borders has not made a difference it only served to show that the people on a one to one basis are fine but the political emphasis is still dividing the people even further.
What a hypocrite!
Do you listen to what you are saying Vp or are you just saying this for the sake of saying?
People accepted that in the past there have been atrocities from both sides. Nobody apart from the partitionists pack that includes you and unfortunately zan tried to see this process as a reconciliation process. I regret to say that this was not the case for you and zan who see this as another propaganda tool in order to perpetuate hard feelings and hatret in order to promote your partitionist agenda.
Don't you for one minute ask youself how come the GCs who have suffered more than 6,000 dead (thats 1% of the GC population at the time) and uncountable rapes continue to want reunification under the very painful solution of BBF?
It is one thing to question the past and try to heal the open wounds through this process and another to scratch an open wound as you and your likes do. So please do not talk again about learning from the past as this in your mind is no different from the process that Denktash and the grey wolves have been trying to exploit in order to maintain the climate of hatret for their partitionist agenda.
So what you are saying is we should not learn from the past to avoid making the same mistakes in the future? because you feel you suffered more (% wise I think we are about the same) but imo suffering cannot be measured in numbers. Im having problems understanding your attack could you kindly clarify your outburst. The only BBF that was put forward was rejected by no other than yoursleves and the rejecting side has done absoulutely nothing to rectfiy this rejection.
It is no sudden busrt Vp, it is fact stated as they are. Most people in this forum are willing to discuss the past in the hope that both communities know what happened and the reasons that lead to these atrocities happening so that they are not repeated in the futture. This is a process that is welcomed in order to reach catharsis.
Unfortunately catharsis in not in your mind and that says it all. What is in your mind is scaring people in order to embrace your partitionist agenda and this is no different from old Dektash and Grey wolves policies.
As for who suffered most I have said in the past that suffering is suffering and cannot be measured. I just quoted the numbers in order to show that people are willing to put the past behind them and unite again.