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[Pyrpolizer]

VP I hope you are not offended once again, but you remind me of Kikapu's niece who was born and raised in UK by Cypriot* parents in such a conservative manner and when she became 18 they sent her to Cyprus and arranged a marriage for her. The only difference you are male.


*because it happens not only to TCs but to GCs expats too.

[Kikapu]

Meteors I know nothing about but GCs i do so I have to take all the precautions I can not to regret listening to people like you who live thousands of miles away and find it so easy to dictate to people who are in the front line.

VP, may I ask how long you have lived in Cyprus.

You really do not have to answer it, and I will not push you, I swear.

I'm just trying to figure out something, but can't do it, if i don't know, how long you have been living in Cyprus. And also, you said that you did not live in London. Were you by any chance, living in the Hounslow area, like some of my relatives from Kaymakli.

I lived in London for a long time but not in the Hounslow area.

Fair enough.

The reason I ask is, I grew up in North London, like most TC's and GC's in the 70's and 80's, and it wasn't always comfortable living there. There were always little gangs, that went on picking fights and bullying kids, specially in school. These were mostly English skin head types and later on, there were more and more groups, made up of blacks. So as kids, we grew up having to defend ourselves, and learned to be self reliant if you like, so that's why, I do not let "invisible fears" to control me. So when you say, I dictate from a distance, when you have to live with it, I'm just wondering, if you really had faced any fears, where you had to defend yourself, or has it been, all imaginary for you. If you have lived in Cyprus for a long time, then that too would explain why you would feel "naked" without the Turkish Army, since you see them, as your protectors, which gets you off the hook, having to defend yourself, metaphorical speaking. This may be the reason, why it is always the what if's, that you always ask, because of your own insecurities about facing day to day involvement, with the GC's, if and when, we have a settlement.

Anyway, I'm just making an observation, and nothing more.

[Kikapu]

VP I hope you are not offended once again, but you remind me of Kikapu's niece who was born and raised in UK by Cypriot* parents in such a conservative manner and when she became 18 they sent her to Cyprus and arranged a marriage for her. The only difference you are male.


*because it happens not only to TCs but to GCs expats too.

Oh God No, she is not sent to Cyprus yet. Her parents will BRING her there, when they move in the near future. Are you crazy Pyro.? Her parents will never sent her anywhere alone. She needs to be protected, at all times.

[askimwos]

But I take all the necesary precautions to ensure no harm comes to me or my children, this reduces the risk the known risks the GCs are a known risk...as I said below learn from then past..

Pathetic!!!

You should really visit a psycologist Vp...you seem to be going through the main symptoms of Agora-phobia!

I would never expect you to understand, as you cant..

Hey man, I lost relatives during the 1974 invation, what makes you so arrogant to think that you were the only one who may have some sort of fear about what the future holds for him and his children.
However, I love this country and its people and I am not blaming TCs for the loss that my family sustained.

You see Vp, every cypriot have their little or bigger stories about what happened and how this affected them. However, most people are willing to put the past behind them and opt for reunification under a true BBF.

I believe it is not fear that triggers you love affair with partition but rather economic and selfish interests.

[Kikapu]

I believe it is not fear that triggers you love affair with partition but rather economic and selfish interests.

I'm afraid, it is the economics that stops partitionist on one side, and non unification supporters on the other side, to find a solution. Few weeks ago, "skipper" mentioned that Dektash was given 3 thousand Donums of land in the "TRNC", and more than likely, he never had that much, in the RoC to begin with, so why should he want a solution. I wonder how many others, are in similar situations.

[T_C]

Sorry about my lack of understanding on these things but what exactly would having a BBF mean?

How would a federal system with 2 States work, can someone spell it out for me please

and do the GCs agree with this?

[Pyrpolizer]

VP I hope you are not offended once again, but you remind me of Kikapu's niece who was born and raised in UK by Cypriot* parents in such a conservative manner and when she became 18 they sent her to Cyprus and arranged a marriage for her. The only difference you are male.


*because it happens not only to TCs but to GCs expats too.

Oh God No, she is not sent to Cyprus yet. Her parents will BRING her there, when they move in the near future. Are you crazy Pyro.? Her parents will never sent her anywhere alone. She needs to be protected, at all times.

Sure, sure sometimes I think I am crazy.
And I was thinking, and thinking, and thinking something wasn't right.



But isn't that strange? A guy born and rasied in the UK, almost becoming a British himself with British manners and outlook to life, coming back and marrying a TC???

I mean I also have cousins born and raised in the UK they could not have possibly "survive" in Cyprus not even a month let alone get married, live and work here. In fact all of them married British people....

I don't know the VP case was always the mystery of the forum..

[Pyrpolizer]

TC,
BBF is Beef barbeque. It's less fatening than pork, or lamb, ideal for Cypriots.

[zan]

Kikapu

I specifically said that we could not take the RoC's word on this issue and that still stands. All your posts after that to VP ask that and that only. We know what might or might not happen but whereas I cannot draw up a contract with a meteor, I can with the equally deadly RoC. What you need to start doing is think of this as a contract. Like any other contract provisos have to be added. The basic law as it stands is not sufficient to cover the special circumstances so additional contracts are drawn. Why are you so eager to go into a business deal with your arse hanging out of your trousers. I still don't get your mindset. Why do you ignore my plea for a 70/30 split that Makarios was ready sign and offer YOURSELF less than what was already on the table. I don't care what the population of TCs are at the moment or was in 1960. We were stunted in our growth and the figure today does not represent a true percentage. Lets draw up the contract that is perfect for both sides. The GCs are lucky we are not divorcing them because on that basis we are entitled to a far greater share.

[free_cyprus]

greek speaking and turkish speaking cypriots put bombs in cyprus against their own people the wankers and they killed their own people the cypriots