by Murataga » Mon Mar 26, 2007 3:50 pm
askimwos- Yes, I agree that there are common traditions and folklore but no more than a few dance figures and dishes in the kitchen, so let’s not exaggerate. Yes, there are countries where people of different language and religion live together, but just as importantly there are many others that don’t. In international relations and corresponding sociological phenomenon there are very seldom two cases that are alike; and each situation has its own unique circumstances as does the Cyprus. More importantly, people with much more common traditions and folklore between GCs and TCs such as Canadians of Canada and English of Great Britain, New Zealanders of New Zealand and Australians of Australia, Pakistanis of Pakistan and Indians of India, and etc… have separate countries. You can not ask or force two communities to live as one when there is a strong will against doing so from either one or both of the communities. Consider Greeks of Greece and Turks of Turkey for example… Greece was effectively an Ottoman province for many centuries, where all subjects of the Ottomans lived together. Whether they may like it or not, whether they may accept it or not, the people of Greece share more traditions and folklore with their neighboring Turks than perhaps any other EU member country today. Furthermore, with a population of a little more than 10 million, the population of Greece to Turkey in terms of percentage corresponds to the population of TCs to GCs. Given all these criteria, Greece should dismantle their state and become ONE with the Turks again according to your mentality.
In conclusion, there are two distinct communities in Cyprus that have in the past and will in the future endure problems when put under each other’s administration or sovereignty and forced to live as ONE. Yes, we share some common attribute, but we are not ONE and never have been. Far more importantly, we don’t want to be. Both communities have jealously preserved their distinction and it is only natural for each community to want to be administered by people from their own community. We want to be friends, we want to be partners, we want to be colleagues, but not One. There is a huge difference. I want my 1 year old son to go to a TC school where he is taught that Turkey is where we came to Cyprus from, Turkey is the country that saved us from illegal and lethal violence we were subjected to between 63-74, and that his grandparents were able to survive because of the aid and assistance Turkey sent them when GCs had them under siege. I don’t want him to go a school where he is thought that Turkey is an illegal and barbaric invader. I am not telling you that we should live in the past. I am all for putting it behind us, make no mistake about it. However, you must accept that history is a part of culture and folklore, and what makes us who we are today. You can not ask me to act like it did not happen and that I can not tell it to my kids the way I lived it or the way his grandparents lived it. Peace in the island is not through becoming one, it is through partnership. Partnership is not partition, don’t confuse them. Partnership is respect to the existence of our communities in Cyprus, it is the recipe for peace, it is a bi-communal and bi-zonal federation where neither of the communities are allowed explicitly or implicitly their extend their will or sovereignty over the other.